Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, February 13, 2010

Who Is A Funeral Director And What He Does

By Alvin Cruise

to the actual handling of the body of the deceased.

The prime duties of a funeral director can be categorised into four broad heads, which are transporting the dead body, preparing it for the funeral service, making arrangements for friends and relatives to assemble and pay their last respects to the departed and then the actual cremation or burial of the body according to the choice or beliefs of the family.

These responsibilities entail taking care of essential activities like deciding the place and timings of the memorial services, arranging for a car to transport the body, and preparing obituaries and placing them in print or the electronic media. Besides, funeral directors have to arrange flowers and have the decoration carried out for each ceremony, make provisions for conveyance for the assembled people and dress up the body for the ceremony after anointing it.

Other than these jobs, a funeral director also takes care of the critical paperwork that forms a part of the official formalities following a person's death. He helps the relatives in obtaining a death certificate. He is also entrusted with other tasks like helping the family with getting the insurance money and to take advantage of seniors' burial scheme. He can even arrange for the transfer of any annuities or pensions that the family is entitled to receive, and offers tips to the family on management of funeral costs.

He also has to associate with a lot of people and should coordinate with different people for effectively accomplishing his tasks. He has to interact with physicians, pastors, casket makers and flower sellers, all with equal ease.

Finally, it is essential for funeral directors to come forward and provide some comfort to the bereaved family on a personal level, in order to help them get over the loss of a loved one. Some funeral directors neglect this task, but it is an essential part of their service no doubt.

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