Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, February 12, 2010

Essential Skills And Qualities Required For Undertakers

By Marjorie Wong

Arrangements and organising services related to funerals are usually taken care of by undertakers, who are also known as funeral directors. Given below are a few of the important skills and personal qualities that undertakers should possess to succeed in their profession.

Since an undertaker may be required at any time of day or night, the person venturing into this profession must be willing to be on call for 24 hours. This is essentially an outdoors task, which will need him to be away from office for long hours.

To be an undertaker, a person must be able to interact well and should accommodate the viewpoints of others. He must be able to handle and interact with people of all age groups and people having various social and ethnic backgrounds. Understanding and compassion will be of great importance as he performs his job. However, he must be emotionally strong and not get carried away by other people's grief, so that he can offer psychological support to them.

As an undertaker, a person should project a dignified and serene personality, while seeing that his behaviour doesn't intensify the sorrow of the bereaved family members and relatives.

By nature, undertakers should not be narrow minded. They should be ready to honour the faith and beliefs of all religions and should be knowledgeable in this area. They should be conscious of different customs and rituals followed by various groups during the funeral service.

Good management and the power to organize affairs are important skills for an undertaker. Many services will need to be organized by the undertaker and this will require good communication and managerial ability from the undertaker.

An undertaker must be proficient in legal matters and must know the legal formalities to be followed, or the formal approvals needed from the State authorities before conducting funeral ceremonies. He will need to be fully aware of rules to be followed for the purpose of obtaining death certificates or insurance payments.

Finally, he should necessarily be able to and be eligible to drive vehicles like hearses and limousines during the funeral service.

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