Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, January 25, 2010

Should Your Get A Memorial Bench For Your Loved One?

By Terry Kirk

Memorial plaques are also gaining popularity because they are a much cheaper substitute for the tombstone. Memorial plaques are sometimes mounted on wooden bases that are customarily made from 2-ply exterior grade flexible acrylic, or firmly built-in into the fixed on a wall wooden frame. There are wooden boards made from oak, mahogany or teak. You could find some firms who can provide you with specific timbers according to your request.

So let's explore our options and see what decisions we have when contemplating the addition of an ornamental wall plaque. For those who are hunting for the elegant look of stone, your decision would be the old Stone Collection. Here you've got the everlasting wonder of stone.

A memorial Bench is the very best way to venerate a friend's life. You can put the bench in a quaint spot, a place they enjoyed, a placed they once lived, even just in your own garden. Lots of folks are now opting to raise money for commemorative benches to be made for special folks in their life who have died. They offer a different way to celebrate someone's life.

You can plant a tree in their memory. You will find tree seeds on the web. You could also get a tree at a local nursery.

Have your love one's photograph placed on a stamp. This would also be excellent for the thank you notes you'll be sending for the flowers, donations and the help you'll be receiving. Get more information at photo.stamps.com / PhotoStamps / learn-more On the anniversary of their death or on their birthday, consider sending a card or a memorial gift to close buddies and relations.

Create a memorial on the web - there are several sites that permit family to memorialize the deceased through video, photos, and voice recordings. Keep a journal of your memories, your thoughts and what you learned from your beloved.

Outside wall plaques are similarly well-liked as commemorative or construction signage. They can carry info on when a certain building was built, for instance, or the date when a certain business was established. Many firms also use out of doors wall plaques to display their company name and address, and even as directional posts for visitors.

working with a loss of a loved one is so tough. It's important to do what brings you peace-of-mind. Focusing on a commemorative may help you thru the grief process and let you focus on the unique and positive aspects of your loved ones life and how that life can be recollected and celebrated for years to come.

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