Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Monday, September 21, 2009

Hospice Grief Counseling - A Compassionate Shoulder For Your Family

By Ben Pate

Everyone suffers grief at one point in his or her life or another. When a loved one dies or becomes terminally ill, the emotional consequences can be extremely difficult for the average person to cope with. The grieving process is never easy and can often take weeks and months for a person to fully recover from. Regardless of when the grieving process begins to set in, whether it is before the death of a terminally ill patient or weeks after their passing, people in these situations should take extra care to maintain their welfare. Many turn to a Hospice Medicare for this help.

The interpretation and emotional response to death can vary drastically from one culture to the next. In many cases the death of a loved one is accompanied by feelings of sorrow, loss, anger and regret. Regardless of how the grief manifests itself in the patient, it's a serious and difficult ordeal for any person to go through and should be treated with the utmost care.

When a person begins to feel grief overcoming them they may be inclined to push their emotions down and distract themselves with prior obligations or with caring for others within the family. When this happens and a person becomes too preoccupied to handle their own grief and emotions they may repress their feelings for a long period of time. In cases like these a person may need assistance handling their emotions in a safe and proactive way.

Sometimes a person may become overwhelmed by their grief. In extreme cases a person's grief may overcome their psyche and shut down their coping mechanisms that normally allow them to handle these emotions. In cases like these where a patient is no longer able to manage their own grief and sort their emotions the person may find that they are no longer able to operate through their daily routine and they begin to fall apart emotionally, now is when they need a Medicare Hospice to help.

In cases such as these a person may need the assistance of grief counseling. Luckily many hospice facilities have on-site grief counseling services to assist patient's families as they begin this difficult and trying ordeal. When looking for a hospice facility, prospective patients should always make it a point to find out if their particular facility offers grief counseling services to ensure their loved ones are taken care of.

In most cases, grief counseling consists of talking openly about a patient's feelings of grief and loss. During these discussions a patient will disclose and speak openly about their fears and frustrations as a way of sorting out their feelings. Exploring the patient's doubts and forcing them to understand the challenges and fears that they may be harboring is part of the guided healing process that grief counseling attempts to facilitate.

Sometimes in severe cases of emotional strife and conflict a patient may require more intense forms of guidance. In these scenarios a patient will often be directed to the assistance of grief therapy. Grief therapy aims to address severe grief depression through clinical and medical means and often with more intense sessions.

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