Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, June 6, 2009

What Can I Do To Save My Marriage?

By Ricardo d Argence

If the question what can I do to save my marriage has crossed your mind that is a pretty good indication that you are in a crisis and your marriage needs help.

There is no question that you will need a time to consider your marriage before you set off on the path to learning the answer to what can I do to save my marriage? Failing to take the time to plan and map your route can end in you running in circles and hitting many brick walls, so take the time and make a plan.

If you haven't already done so, you should talk to your spouse. Find out what they think of the situation and if they believe there is anything worth saving of the marriage. With any luck you both agree that you both want to save your marriage and you decide to go forward together.

Now that you have talked with your spouse, you have some choices to make. You can try to save your marriage on your own or seek outside help. Outside help can include a marriage counselor or searching the internet for a good eBook to answer the provocative question what can I do to save my marriage?

If you opt for marriage counseling you should consider that this process can be long, expensive and you really have to be prepared to open yourself and your marriage up to an outside third party. Not only that, you have to be lucky enough to find a therapist who will gel with you and your spouse in order for the process to work really well.

You could both try to work things out between on your own and sometimes this can work really well. However, you should be aware that you do run the risk of making things worse because you might not be entirely sure what you're doing or how to go about it.

Not only that, you and your spouse will naturally take your corners and hold onto positions that you have, whether they are right or they are wrong. It's human nature to protect yourself and that might not always be the right way for you to go forward to find ways to save my marriage.

Finally, you can use the internet to solve your problems. Several eBooks on the market today address just this issue. Many couples have found this to be the perfect resource because they can go at their own speed. Moreover, it does not hurt that the only fee you will incur is the initial purchase price of the guide.

Without a doubt it is always easier to have your spouse on side and the two of you rooting for the marriage, but choosing the right resource to save the union is also crucial!

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