Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Breakup Advice On How To Survive When You Two Breakup

By Sindy Zoer


Breakup advice can come from everyone when you and your ex first split up. Everyone thinks they know exactly how to help you. The following are some solid tips that may help when you and your significant other first part ways.

One of the healthiest ways to relieve the pain and grief associated with the breakup is to cry. Do not deny yourself a good cry if you feel the need arise. Also, find ways to keep yourself busy. Watch your favorite programs on TV, exercise a little bit, read, and enjoy any other hobbies that you may have. Be kind to yourself while your heart is healing.

There are many ways that you can find emotional support when you need it. There are support groups available as well as counseling that can assist in getting you through this period. If a support group is not your thing, employ the help of a friend or two that you can lean on when you need them. Whatever you do, do not try to heal by yourself.

Find ways to keep busy. Take an early morning walk, go to a movie theater in the middle of the day, read a good book, and more. Whatever you do, do not isolate yourself in your home. Free your mind to help mend your heart.

Spend time with your friends as much as possible. Go have coffee together and do other fun things to help you get the support that you will need to get through these times. Spend some time volunteering in your local community to help you heal and make new friends. This may be important if many of your friends are mutual friends between you and your ex.

Wait at least one year before you make any major changes such as moving to a new location, buying a new car or home, and so on. Doing these things are ways that many people use to hide their feelings instead of healing, especially after a long-term relationship ends.

Trust how you are feeling about the relationship ending. Even if it has come as a shock to you, chances are your inner voice is telling you that you are better off without the person. Listen to it. This breakup advice is meant to assist the newly single make it without their ex.




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Saturday, August 10, 2013

Awesome Religious Landmarks Indianapolis

By Pris Stratton


Indianapolis is not only the biggest metropolitan in the great state of Indiana, it is also the capital in the state too. Indianapolis is known for being home to the Indianapolis Colts, the Indianapolis Speedway and a downtown area full of masses of shops, eateries, attractions and things to do and see. Spiritual landmarks in Indianapolis can be experienced throughout the town and the surrounding Indianapolis area. Religious sites in Indianapolis are a great addition to any Indianapolis trip, as many of the sites are also historic in nature and help to showcase the cultural variance found in the city of Indianapolis. Do yourself a favor and read our suggestions to find more about popular Indianapolis activities.

Christ Church Cathedral

Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, the Christ Church Cathedral is probably one of the more architecturally astonishing Indianapolis religious landmarks. Built in 1857, the church draws crowds who come to take a look at the unique building and admire the Tiffany stained glass windows that seem to come to life when the sun reflects off them.

Scottish Rite Cathedral

Celebrating some of the Scottish heritage of the area, this is proving to be one of the most popular religious landmarks in Indianapolis. This Gothic style cathedral is almost surreal in its appearance, and is the subject of many photos by those who come to bask in the beauty of the building itself. The interior of the church has four rooms which can on occasion be toured and include the Tiler's room which is covered in detailed and splendidly hand carved wood and marble, the Ballroom and Lounge utilized for formal affairs and the Auditorium which is Medieval Gothic in design and importance.

Bethel African Methodist Episcopal Church

Paying tribute and homage to the amazing Afro-American culture found across the city, the Bethel African Methodist Episcopal Church stands as a tribute to sheer beauty of the Indianapolis religious landmarks that entice crowds and travellers from all over the world. Once a stop along the Underground Railroad, this is the oldest African church left standing in Indianapolis. The inside and outside of the church, which only stands as a historically significant site now, shows a particularly simplified design and echoes the strife of the past based totally on the actual simplicity of the design.

Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church

Though many religious sites in Indianapolis are found around the city center, the mesmerizing Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church is found slightly under 2 miles from the heart of the town itself. Built in 1875 as the German National Catholic Church, this church remains a tribute to the German culture and history of the area. Stained glass, ornate gold displays, high ceilings and statues give a very larger than life feel to the church.




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