Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, June 20, 2010

How To Convey Your Own Identity

By Regina Lockhart

Everyone has his or her own identity: the set of thoughts, beliefs, actions, and personality traits that make us who we are. Understanding our own identity can be tremendously helpful in being successful in life, yet many people don't discover who they really are until they're 30 or 40 years old.

We all face challenges in life but the truth is that these challenges only serve as catalysts for us to discover who we really are. It's easy to feel overcome with all of life's difficulties, however, and many people fail to use these challenges to better themselves.

If you're looking to discover your own identity but don't know where to begin, here are a few tips on how to learn more about yourself. These ideas can get you started on the path to self-discovery.

One of the easiest ways to reflect your personality through your outward appearance is through the styles of clothing that you wear. The colors and fashions that you present in your clothing can tell someone a lot about your personality.

Your fashion and style choices say a lot about you, so take the time to look at different styles of clothing to find what fits you. You may find a new interest in fashion once you realize that there's something out there that fits your personality, and it can help you learn something about your own tastes as well.

You can also use your hobbies to express yourself. Those in creative fields such as music and acting spend a tremendous amount of time perfecting their crafts so that they can make their voices heard and express their personalities and points of view.

It's said that actions speak louder than words, which is also true when it comes to our identities. The actions we take on a daily basis can say a lot about who we are on the inside.

Some ideas for positive actions that can help you learn about yourself include volunteering and helping out your community. Not only will these good deeds help you appreciate how helping others can teach you about your own identity, but you'll feel great for coming to the aid of others as well.

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Choose From All Headstone Options Available To Meet Your Every Need

By Tom Tree

When you must face this difficult time of decision-making, it will be hard to select a headstone from All Headstone Options Available To Meet Your Every Need. Among the many to choose from, there will be one to fit your needs. But, finding the one most appropriate requires careful appraisal.

A family is often unprepared for this tragedy. If the departed was young, it is even more devastating. Treat them with love and respect by making a careful choice. It will honor them forever.

All cemeteries impose some rules regarding the placement of monuments. Some will only permit level plaques. Their size may be regulated. You may, however, use the inscription you prefer as to font style and color.

If there are no restrictions, your options are expanded. There are taller monuments similar to the ones constructed in ancient Rome and Greece. The materials they are made of resemble granite. They are long-lasting but also more earth-friendly than granite. These represent a person who was regal and strong in life.

If you favor traditional style, you may be willing to conform to the rules imposed by the cemetery. If you want to be laid to rest beside your loved one at a later date, leave room for your name and birth and death dates to be inscribed. Some widows or widowers have their name and date of birth inscribed ahead of time.

Color choices include white, black, gray and blue pearl. The color can also be mottled black or gray. Name and date can be inscribed in black, silver, gold or a custom color. You can also add a beautiful tracery to the stone. A tracery can be either a portrait of the departed or of anything symbolic of them. It can represent something he or she loved in life. This will give comfort to family members each time they visit.

A headstone to memorialize your loved one will be a permanent tribute as well as a comfort to those left behind. A monument can be made with a permanently attached cup to hold fresh flowers. Parents who have lost a child may want a white headstone with a carved angel resting on top of it.

You may not have purchased a cemetery plot. Many people are not prepared for such a tragedy. If making a purchase now, check for one that allows you to use one from All Headstone Options Available To Meet Your Every Need. Find out if the cemetery requires them to be under a certain height, for example. Select the monument before the cemetery. You can then compare the rules in regards to whether they conflict with the size and height you want to use.

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Saturday, June 19, 2010

Musing And Thoughts On The Nature Of The Color Green

By David Artstone

The color green is more than just a slice of the color wheel. It is a series of tones that have a definite meaning on the psychology and philosophy of the human experience. It is symbolic, both on a societal, and on a personal level. It means something, and that meaning helps to color the world.

The most overriding characteristic of the color green is that it is representative of life. Nature is green, from the leaves on the trees to the grass underfoot; nature is a symphony of green tones, spotted only randomly with other disparate hues. This means that green tones are invariably linked to the natural world, and to the act of growing, and living.

In general this is a good thing, making green a vibrant color that invigorates a space and makes it feel more active. Green tones can give a room a sense of being fresh and lively, and can help to add energy to a room that might otherwise be drab of blas.

However the association of green with life is not always a positive one. Some green tones invoke thoughts of sickness, plague, or death. In those tones the life that the green is associated with is viral or bacterial, or even fungal in nature, and so is actually harmful to humans. When choosing colors in art or design, it is important to be aware of this aspect of certain green tones.

Aside from being vigorous, green is also a soothing tone. It doesn't tend to incite excitability or anger. Instead it creates a soft and peaceful atmosphere. It is a color which is not exactly lethargic, still vigorous, but also not chaotic, just mild.

The color green has a number of symbolic properties which gives it a much richer and more complex identity than just that of a random color. By understanding the meaning behind the hue, you can get a richer vision of the entire world.

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How To Choose A Perfect Headstone For Your Loved One Can Depend On Several Factors

By Tom Tree

Planning a funeral for loved ones is a difficult and overwhelming time. How to Choose a Perfect Monument for Your Loved One will often times be an expensive and difficult process of a funeral.

The headstone should be made from a quality material in order to withstand the elements. It is an investment that will be intact for hundreds of years to follow. There are many different styles as well as various ways to customize them specific to the loved ones.

Some cemeteries require that the marker be an in ground plaque made from stone or metal in order to keep a unified look to the cemetery. It is important to verify the requirements of the cemetery before ordering a marker to ensure that it can be used.

If you have opted for a headstone that stands above the ground it should be created from marble or granite as these two materials are very durable and will tolerate the change in elements. These can be found in numerous sizes, shapes and can be customized to your specific needs.

The headstone will be a tribute for the deceased so deciding what to have written could be difficult. They typically will have the deceased name, birth dates and date of death as well as additional poems, sayings or special verses. Stones of this style can also be customized with decorative accessories such as a picture frame.

How to Choose a Perfect Monument for Your Loved One is a difficult time both with expense and choice of stone. Grief is extremely difficult and the funeral planning process can feel overwhelming, so many loved ones wait a few weeks before making the decision on a headstone. This is perfectly acceptable as it gives loved ones time to decide on the most meaningful words to add to the monument. It is also understandable to shop around for a monument that is within the budget, yet will be the perfect choice for the deceased and loved ones.

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Friday, June 18, 2010

The Difference In Philosophies

By Arthur N. Miles

Which comes first, thinking, or the thinker?

The tradition of Western philosophy, at least since Descartes' famously eloquent summary of cogito sum ergo, has held that the thinker came first. This seems intuitive enough; after all, there must be a driver first before there is any driving, just as there has to be a cook first before there is any cooking. So naturally there is a thinker, somebody who thinks, in whose head thoughts are being constructed.

But Eastern traditions hold that thinking comes first, and that it's a result of thinking that a thinker arises. Although perhaps not as intuitive, this can also make perfect sense; take into account that stereotype of waiters and waitresses being actors and actresses - only in-between roles. Is one truly an actor (or writer, or artist) if one doesn't do any acting (or writing, or art)? Would you be a "baseball player" if you didn't even play any baseball?

one is only, say, the Queen of England if she truly does perform all the duties of that office. Likewise, it's thinking that makes the thinker: The act first that then defines the title.

This seemingly easy observation has profound implications for the way we think, if we think about it deeply enough. In the case of our self-identities, these implications are quite unsettling, for it raises the question of whether we are who we really think we are. Much anger in the world arises from what are literally thinking errors, usually involving some aspect of self-identity.

In the most sensational examples, one frequently reads of racists who discover, to their horror, that they have ancestors who were of the very ethnic or racial group they hate. After a tough period of soul-searching, several give up their racism, although not often realizing how literally it was always "all in their heads."

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Can You Find A Nice Gravestone That Is Environmentally Friendly?

By Earl Yates

Environmentally friendly tombstone are becoming more popular as people become more aware of our global environment. Most people are seeking green products that are created from sustainable resources. And it is the same for memorials and tombstones. These can be difficult to find, though online searches will prove helpful. Some cemeteries actually limit the use of tombstone materials to two or three choices. Finding a nice green memorial for your loved one can be problematic.

Some forward thinking tombstone manufacturers in the U. K. Have created tombstones made of composite plant materials. These are designed to last for many years, and then gradually dissolve into the ground over time. The U. K. Is facing an extreme shortage of burial space. The burial practices are changing rapidly there because of the lack of space to bury compared to the increasing need for burials. The country is quickly developing burial practices that allow for more natural return to the ground.

In a significant amount of cemeteries, tombstone materials are regulated. Typically, only two or three choices of materials are made available, so that the cemetery might maintain a uniform appearance throughout its grounds. Unfortunately, these materials are traditional granite, sandstone, marble, or solid rock. And often, the expense is quite high and many struggle to afford the literally thousands of dollars that these traditional tombstones may cost.

There is a growing movement toward totally green burial. At these cemeteries, burials take place only in simply pine boxes, or shrouds. Tombstones and memorials may be something as simple as a tree, bush, or native flowers planted to mark the site.

It is not uncommon for family members to find a burial site at a green cemetery using electronic tracking devices. Tracking chips included during internment help family members to locate the plot later on. This modern system assumes that no tombstone will be needed. But, family can choose to use a flat rock or flat tombstone marker to identify the exact spot as long as the natural environment is not disrupted.

For traditionalists, having a large stone professionally engraved is considered to be one of the most environmentally friendly tombstone possible. For the professionals that engrave the stones, there is nothing more natural. Having come from the ground, a stone is viewed as the best thing to use. For many, the stones are the most natural thing, and speak clearly of the earth, so the tombstone is the most lasting and natural memorial possible.

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Thursday, June 17, 2010

Some Major Points Of Granite Tombstone Manufacturing

By Matt Mayor

Granite gravestone creation is something that many people wonder about but they do not exactly do anything about looking into what goes into it. Well, research, a lot of thought and a lot of care actually goes into creating headstones and below, we are going to explore how you can choose the right one for your deceased.

Naturally, there are of course some rare sentiments that you want to make sure that you incorporate into the gravestone and that is where the engraving process comes into play. You want to make sure that you are choosing words that are very precious and that actually mean something to the deceased.

What this means is that the wording that you pick to have etched into the stone is going to be immensely important. Poems and versus of songs are things that are certainly memorable and certainly something that you will want to consider whenever you are looking to add some wording to your gravestones.

One great thing about getting a granite gravestone is that you can actually design your own headstone. There are many different headstones for you to choose from, however if you want something that is a little bit unique and different to match the personality of the deceased, there are other options that you can choose from.

However, granite is one of the most popular choices. It is quite beautiful, it is incredibly durable, and it lends itself well to design. For that reason, and many others, it is the material of choice for a lot of people.

Headstones and granite gravestone creation is certainly a process that is constantly happening, however do not be scared to request a headstone out of the ordinary. This is typical nowadays, with everyone wanting something completely personalized and different.

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