Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, July 23, 2009

Remote Viewing - An Overview

By Peter J Minks

Remote viewing is the psychic ability that pertains to the ability to see places, people, and objects that are not within the range of the outer five senses. This means you wouldn't be able to see or hear it by natural means, but your own innate psychic ability can be trained to perceive things without you needing to be there in person.

Don't mistake remote viewing as being the same as an out-of-body experience. Astral travel, or out-of-body experience, is where you travel incorporeally in spirit form to view a place or an event.

Remote viewing is a form of psychic dowsing, where the viewer is using psychic power to seek out whatever he wants to find. The remote viewer is using a form of ESP to locate that which he seeks.

All humans have a form of latent psychic ability that was never developed fully when we were young. Considering that most of us only ever use around 10% of our brain's capacity, there's another 90% of dormant brainpower left untapped and untrained that we aren't quite sure what to do with.

There are many practical applications for remote viewing, such as making sure that your children are safe and sound when you're away. Remote viewing can add to your security and give you the peace of mind that comes from knowing that everything is OK.

Anyone can learn how to use their innate psychic abilities and remote view. In studies on remote viewing, people who had not manifested any sort of psychic abilities before were able to remote view once they had learned to reach the proper trance state needed for this ability to function.

To start training yourself in remote viewing abilities, these techniques are helpful:

*Sit comfortably in a quiet place and close your eyes. You should be sure there are no distractions before you begin.

*Relax and breathe deeply through your nose. You will find your breathing may be easier to control if you press your tongue lightly to the roof of your mouth. This will also curb your tendency to yawn during this phase.

*Believe in yourself and your remote viewing abilities. You need to tell yourself that you can and will be able to remotely view things which your senses would not let you normally perceive.

*Start off with an easy object for your remote viewing to test your abilities. Try looking at yourself from across the room, as if you were watching yourself in a mirror. This is something which can be difficult to do at first; but focus and be patient with yourself. You'll be pleasantly surprised how quickly you'll learn to be able to see yourself from the perspective others see you.

*Once you can master the mental control needed to view yourself from a remote perspective, cast your remote viewing eye a little wider, and observe a location you know very well. Perhaps a parent's home or family member will suffice while you're training your mind. Notice small things that may be out of place, such as dishes on the sink or magazines on the table. When you get a chance, call and confirm what you saw. This reinforcement of what you've seen is important, because it will show you what your mind is really capable of achieving.

The next step is to try something a little more challenging. Try having a friend or family member in the next room repeating a motion while you try to remotely view them. Once you're done, see if you could perceive what they were doing. This exercise can tell you if you're really advancing in the development of your remote viewing abilities.

With practice and patience, your ability to remote view will steadily improve and it will become ever easier for you to achieve the trance state needed for remote viewing. Much like a hypnotic state, your body will be completely relaxed, but you will still be aware and your subconscious will be able to start working towards its potential.

The subconscious mind is the seat of our psychic capabilities. The more you practice relaxation and remote viewing, the better you will get at it.

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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Regression Therapy - Why You Should Remember Past Lives

By David Shakkid

Are you suffering from feelings of abandonment? Do you have an addictive personality? Does it seem like you are always the victim of an evil person? Do you have issues with rage or anger? What are your relationships like; are they healthy? Do you feel like something is missing even though you seem to have it all?

If you think that you are having issues on one of these areas and you tried every possible way to address them but they still keep on coming around then you MUST read this article as you may never have considered that Regression Therapy could help solve all your problems!

Regression Therapy looks at healing from a holistic approach. Ones body, mind and spirit are all inter connected and affect each other. Regression Therapy seeks to take a client back into past experiences through hypnotic type venues, while the mind is kept aware.

These past experiences may include childhood, teen years, young adulthood and even the time in the womb.

Many people however are regressed to a time beyond this life; past life regression focuses on remembering past existences.

This is not a concept that everyone can accept. 'Conventional' science tells us that this life is the only life we experience and when we die it is the end.

For example, in some accounts, clients talk about being an official in a foreign kingdom; some describe vividly experiences of fighting in a war; some even talk about hunting in the wild during the Stone Age with their partner who is, in fact, their spouse in the present life.

What is really exciting is when people can manage to physically verify information about things that they remembered during their past life regression therapy session. This can be done by looking at old parish records etc.

All around the world you can find heavily documented evidence of children who can still remember their past life. By visiting the places they used to live in their previous life they even get to meet living 'relatives' who they know inexplicably everything about.

It really helps in this life if we know what happened to us during those times in the past, because this form part of the way we look at this life, thus giving us the ultimate comprehension of ourselves and the patterns of our perspective.

Regression therapists have a phrase they use called "faulty thoughts". Faulty thoughts are the negative emotions and thoughts which people my carry over from one life to the next. This bad karma can have a negative impact on the way you live now.

Only the individual who have created this negative feeling can release the same feeling so that he could re-model his energy field into something positive. Some of the ways to release this is through forgiveness, karmic repayment, and re-patterning.

The concept of forgiveness is simple - every schoolchild (or anyone who once was one) remembers the Golden Rule: "do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Karmic repayment is the process of changing your negative behaviors to right the wrongs you have done.

After taking these measures to rid one of negative feelings, we can re-pattern our energy field into a positive thing, with good feelings of tranquility and peace.

Regression therapy can be hard on you but is truly life changing. Clients nearly universally report having a more positive outlook on life and a feeling of renewal.

This change does not come without a price however. To be fully successful one must be totally committed to exploring their mind in order to change their life dramatically.

Regression therapy offers a truly unique way of looking at the human mind and personality and whether to help with problems you may be having or to satisfy your curiosity about past lives, it is something worthy of your consideration.

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Save Your Relationship After Infidelity with These Helpful Hints

By Ricardo d Argence

After infidelity, a relationship is going to be at its weakest point, but it is possible to come back from it. Infidelity is one of the major reasons that relationships fall apart, but the truth is that cheating is almost always a symptom of something bigger. As bad as cheating is, it's not what you need to focus on to restore your relationship after infidelity.

Cheating is usually a sign that the person doing the cheating is looking for something they're not getting from the relationship. This isn't saying that the partner who was cheated on is doing anything wrong, just that there is a major problem in bedrock of the relationship.

If you are going to come back after infidelity, then there are a few tips you need to follow in order to make the process as easy and effective as possible.

The first thing to do is take charge. The cheating wasn't your fault, and if you understand this upfront, your partner won't be able to use it as an excuse. They're only trying to make you feel guilty for their mistake, and they need to know this doesn't fly with you.

This will also help you to feel better about the relationship. Being cheated on makes you feel like a victim, and taking charge to repair your relationship will give you back the strength and pride that cheating took away.

It's easy to play the blame game, but it's only going to make things worse. Remember, the idea is to rebuild your relationship, and if all you do is blame one another, the situation will never be resolved. Just let this part go and you'll thank us for it later.

You'll find that this is the most difficult part on your journey to repair your relationship. However, it's also important to keep from accepting their apology. After all, if you forgive them you wouldn't be here in the first place. Then again, you don't want to fish for one either. If the relationship can be saved, they'll understand how much they hurt you.

The main goal is to figure out the real reason why. Once you can get past this point and discover the true issue, you can start taking the necessary steps to save the relationship. If you don't, it will end up failing.

When the both of you are discussing your future, it's important to have brutal honesty. Most couples have a hard time doing this because of all the emotion that is involved. However, this is part where you'll either see a glimpse of overcoming the infidelity, or having to go your separate ways. So get to the root of the problem and be ready to hear you downfalls as well.

Learn to trust again. In many ways, this is the toughest thing to do after infidelity. The trust has been broken, and it will be hard to get it back, but you need to be able to trust your partner again. No relationship has ever succeeded based on suspicion and paranoia.

In the end there are several different resources available that will help you recover from infidelity. It's hard enough to recover from a relationship, so make sure you get the appropriate help needed to make things better.

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Monday, July 20, 2009

Wife and Husband Relationships - Hints to Have the Best One

By Ricardo d Argence

The basis for spousal relationships is respect and love. Of course you probably already knew this. Most people realize that these things are very important within a good marriage. There are some other things that are important in your relationship as well if you want to keep it strong.

Remember when you were just married? If you have only been married a bit, then think about those first dates. Remember how you treated each other then. No doubt you respected and loved them, but you were thoughtful and kind as well.

Over time when we know someone a long time, we often start becoming more unkind over the years. You would think you would become kinder, but it often doesn't work that way. Sometimes you take your partner for granted, thinking that they are a permanent fixture.

Remember the last time you talked with someone else at the store or in a restaurant. You may have talked to a stranger. How did you talk to them when you were conversing? More than likely you can across as a very kind and sweet person. They may have though about how polite you were when you were talking to each other.

Now think to the words and the tone of the voice you use with your spouse sometimes. When you get angry or you're unhappy about something, think about how you sound. Would you ever speak that way to a stranger? If you're thinking �probably not� then you've started taking advantage of your spouse.

Many people do the same thing with their kids, friends, and even parents. If your conversations were recorded and then someone played them back to you, you would probably be quite ashamed of the way you speak. If you didn't know the person so well, then you would be fearful of hurting those people.

These best relationships between spouses are kind relationships. Of course everyone ends up dealing with anger from time to time and usually you say things that you regret and you may even come across as hateful. You need to keep these problems from occurring often by thinking about how you would talk to others.

Thoughtfulness is also an important factor in good spouse relationships. People love their spouses, but it seems the longer they're together, they less they sometimes show it. Your spouse is one person you should make a point of being thoughtful toward, too.

In the beginning when you're first dating someone or first married, you might send (or receive) flowers, cards and little surprises. Generally after people are married for a while, these sorts of things slow down or stop. Remembering to be thoughtful and surprise your spouse can help makes yours one of the better spouse relationships.

Your marriage isn't something that is concrete. Your spouse could be with someone else. You need to start bringing back the way you spoke and the thoughtful things you did in the past when you were trying to win over your spouse. It is important that you are both thoughtful and kind. Along with respect and love, you will be able to use this to build a relationship that is strong and long lasting.

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Sunday, July 19, 2009

Symptoms of Bipolar Tips & Guide

By Anne Durrell

Identifying the symptoms of bipolar disorder can be difficult since the disorder has 2 dissimilar phases to it.

Bipolar disorder is characterized by what are called episodes. These episodes fall into two categories - manic or depressive.

The depressive episodes are considered to the low where the manic episodes are considered the high. A patient with bipolar disorder will swing between low and high episodes.

The Basics

Cannot control mood swings is known as the basic warning signs of bipolar disorder. In many cases, the person with bipolar disorder may even have times where their mood is well balanced and they experience no symptoms of mania or depression at all.

The symptoms of bipolar disorder can be different from patient to patient. The most important thing to watch for is a repeated mood swings without any reasons.

Manic Attack

The warning signs of bipolar disorder for manic episodes are fall into the dominion of being high energy and high mood. Below are the common warning signs:

* Extreme happiness

* Uncommon high self-esteem

* Cannot give any good judgment

* Quick speech

* Thoughts racing with mind

* Violence

* Tension

* Boost in physical activity

* Risk taking or risky behavior

* Addictive behaviors

* Easily distracted

* Inability to concentrate

Depressive Attack

Extreme sadness and all around feeling down or low characterize depressive episodes. Symptoms include:

* Sorrow

* Lack of caring about anything

* Lack of motivation

* Feeling desperate

* In the depths of despair thoughts

* Anger

* Concentration problems

* Easily sidetracked

* Pain without any reasons

Type of Bipolar

Bipolar type 1 is more likely of a manic state where the manic warning signs are very serious. Bipolar type 2 is more likely of a depressive state with the depression being more serious.

It is necessary to get the correct diagnosis so that the handling can be given that will work for the type of bipolar disorder a patient have.

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ADD Medicine - What Is It?

By Anne Durrell

The most important treatment for ADD or Attention Deficit Disorder is medication. Not just in children, but adult can also be affected by ADD.

Medicines Used for ADD Treatment

The major group of Attention Deficit Disorder medicine is psycho stimulants. These are stimulants which means in the typical patient they would cause a stimulating affect, but in people with Attention Deficit Disorder, they have the opposite effect like calm the person down.

Dextroamphertamines, pemoline and d- and l-amphetamin racemic mixture are included in other groups of stimulants and often used to treat Attention Deficit Disorder. Dexedrine and Dextrostat is the brand name drugs included Dextroamphertamines.

The brand name of a d- and l-amphetamin racemic mixture drug is Adderall. Atomoxetine, clonidine, despiramine, imipramine and buproprion are included in other types of Attention Deficit Disorder Medicine.

Side Effects of ADD Medications

The sides effects can be vary by drug and by person. Therefore, it is important to learn all of possible effects and the proper ADD medicine. Below are the major side affects reported:

* Loss of appetite

* Stomach-ache

* Annoyance

* Mass deficit

* Sleeplessness

Less reported side effects include:

* Fast heart beat

* Torso pain

* Sickness

Taking Treatment

To avoid many common effects you must obey the doctor's order about taking medication. To get it work and do what it has to do to treat the condition you must take the Medicine correctly.

Below are some checklists about the correct way to take the Attention Decificit Disorder medicine as well as ADHD medicine:

* Correct amount of medicine and always take it on time.

* Take it before you eat

* Follow the directions, do not crush or cut pills unless told you can do so.

* The directions must be followed carefully since some medication is controlled, and therefore you must follow the rules about refilling prescriptions as well as picking up prescriptions.

Other Important Information

The medication used to treat ADD is supposed to help improve the ability to concentrate and improve self-control. It is important to understand that the medication will only work when it is taken properly.

It is important to get regular checkups with your doctor to find out how the medications are working, and so that adjustments can be made. In addition, know that every person has different length of treatment.

The most important thing to understand is that treating ADD is an attempt to help a person to cope with the condition. It will not cure it and it will not mean that other treatments, such as counseling, are not needed.

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Saturday, July 18, 2009

Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex? Don't Go Back to Them Before Answering These 3 Questions

By Anne Torres

Do you remember your first kiss?

Possibly you were six, or sixteen, or twenty-six! No matter how old you were, that kiss began the magic of love and attraction to the opposite sex. We all crave for that loving and faithful partner to share our lives with.

Unfortunately relationships aren't always all sugar and spice, we all mess up sometimes and relationships fall apart. When you're in the emotional state caused by a breakup you may be asking yourself if you should get back together with your ex.

How do you answer the question of whether to take your ex back or not?

Did you make a mistake or not? It's fairly hard to answer that question for ourselves now and again. After we breakup with someone our emotions are running high and it's really hard to think reasonably. It becomes next to impossible to actually decide what you should do and decisions made at that time are often a mistake.

1. Have you taken some time to yourself to think things through? It's recommended that you take at least a month without contacting your ex. You will need to this time to become calm enough to think things through. You need to consider the question of whether or not you really want to get back together with your ex. After some time apart it's easier to decide how you feel.

2. Are there valid reasons for NOT taking them back? It's easy to fall into the trap of telling yourself that you love them so much you'll, in no way, be happy without them. What you need to realize is that life does go on and people can and do fall in love again after breakups. It happens incessantly.

3. Have you thought about what the negatives are in your relationship and what could be done to fix them? If your ex lover is not interested in making changes, you are just asking for a problem. If they have been doing something that saddens you like drinking exceptionally, they're not likely to stop just for the reason that you are in agreement to take them back.

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