Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Different Ways To Achieve Chakra Opening

By Jayne Springer

Our chakra system consists of eight main chakras with each chakra situated at a different body points. If you need to check the health of the chakra, it is reflected by the health of body region where chakra is positioned. The chakras are connected with our personality traits and are centers of energy within our body. Our body consists of eight main chakras, each located at different positions and associated with a color.

To begin with at the top of the head is the crown chakra, thirds eye chakra is positioned at the middle of the forehead, throat chakra is positioned at the throat, at the palms is the hand and feet chakra, at the solar Plexus is the solar plexus chakra, heart chakra is positioned at the heart, sacral chakra positioned below the belly button on the right, root chakra is positioned at the spine.

Surrounding our chakras are some unwanted emotions and feelings as well as unwanted thoughts due to which arises mental as well as physical stress. This is the reason we need to open our chakras. Some of the ways in chakra opening proves to be useful are improvisation in energy flow and awakening of natural psychic abilities. It is imperative to awaken the chakras to achieve the benefits discussed.

Chakra opening is done in a number of different techniques. There are energy healers who help in opening of the chakras, balancing them as well as putting energy in them. But there are some other ways too to achieve the same. In the preceding paragraphs we will learn different ways to open up the chakras.

Binaural beats are utilised to help open the chakras. First let your imagination flow and see a light radiant around each chakra, starting with the root chakra or the base. Since this chakra is associated with red color, you should be able to see a red color around it. With the help of binaural beats the effects can be felt instantly. You need not practice years of extreme meditation training for opening of the chakras. Some other techniques for opening the chakras are making use of Isochronic tones and monaural beats.

Meditation is another way to achieve chakra opening. Anyone can do chakra meditation. Generally our three chakras located at the bottom of the spine are already open. Those who have all chakras opened are the spiritual master. The fourth chakra is closed for many people and this is the heart chakra. If heart chakra is opened it gives out love and compassion towards others. Meditation is needed for opening of the higher chakras or energy centers.

To practice chakra meditation requires your time and dedication. This needs to be practiced regularly, starting with at least 30 minutes. Post the practice there is a feeling of balance and break from stress or any kind of emotional worry. You will be able to eventually see an improvement in the health of the mind as well as the body.

A well balanced chakra system is achieved and you will also feel fit and healthy. When the chakras get opened up the level of energy gets pushed out and this helps in opening a spiritual communication.

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Monday, November 15, 2010

How Do Humans Survive?

By Mark Gosby

History shows those, who cannot change in accordance to the circumstances, usually perish. That is the reality of life. Pause for a moment and look around yourself. Every second something is changing around you. Take the example of seasons. They change throughout the year.

Using the same old techniques will not serve your purpose. In order to survive, you would have to make adjustments.

Life itself presents a continually changing challenge. You cannot name one constant thing. Seasons, weather and our environment, everything varies. There are many processes going inside your body to adjust to this change.

Some adaptation occurs on the subconscious level without us being aware of it. For example, our heart is pumping blood as required; our digestive system is working as per the amount of food taken in, and our immune system is fighting against germs to protect us from current infections.

Adaptation is not a static thing. It requires constant interaction between you and your ambiance. If life were a static affair, then success would not have been so hard to achieve. There would have established rules to be successful.

Adaptation ensures survival. If you are very strong but cannot adjust to a changing environment, then that strength would be of no use. It goes for intelligence too. If you are intelligent yet unwilling to alter yourself, then you are prone to lose the battle of your life.

According to his theory, the quickly we adapt; the more probable is our success.

In conclusion, apply this theory to your online business. You will definitely succeed.

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The Most Effective Advice To Sustain Your Marriage

By Greg Scotch

A lot marriages break up for so many reasons and one can really not talk about all these reasons. But whatever reason wrecked your home, it is very important to be clear on the fact that, it was no one person's error

Marriages are still falling apart and it just will not be possible to stop all of them, but there are few hints that can be of much help or even save your home from parting. This can accompany the normal counseling you take.

The first rule is communication. This is so central that its absence can do a lot of damage. So every effort should be made to fix the communication lines in your relationship. You cannot make all the time for your partner but just a little time will be enough to save the marriage. And it can be on and topic at all. It does not matter just start it and it will pull you two together.

Another wonderful plan that can save you from divorce is going out for date. This will surely bring to both of a different atmosphere from the one at home and this can do a lot to your relationship, it again brings in the element of romance and once romance is present your marriage can survive the hard times.

At home and where ever convenient, you must strive to work as one body. This is very important to reduce the work load on just one person. So as you help each other with the work you also find a common activity which can impart positively on your relationship. Know that two will always have a better idea and can accomplish more.

But because you are different from each other, you might as well ,have very personal things that does not bring the two of you together. That is very fine but it must be agreed upon so that it will not rather cause problems. If it is a game or hobby you do separately, just create the room to enjoy it. This is always healthy for the relationship because you all need space of your own. It will as well bring diversity in conversation.

However there will be times when things will not be the same. There could be tensions and a whole lot of bad times but that is the very right time to keep your composure. It is even best no go angry because you might do something to regret later. Keep your cool and allow issues to calm down. When the argument does not favor you, just admit it and carry on. Remember your pride can not be important then your home.

It takes hard work to make a successful home and you need to put in your very best to sustain your marriage. Sometimes it might seem Avery tall order for but know that if that tall order will save your relationship then you need to endure it for the sake of the family.

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Sunday, November 14, 2010

The Keys To A Lasting Relationship

By Eve Swift

There are times when we all suffer from some sort of relationship problems. All of us at one time or another has experienced arguments during our relationships. It is true to say that some of these arguments have even got quite heated at times.

Conflicts always have been and probably always will be a part of long term relationships. You would be hard pressed to find any long term relationship that has not had its fair share of shouting matches along the way.

Many relationships have sadly broken up because of these conflicts and we know that it can be hard to try to win your ex back after such a conflict. If however you get to the stage where you do want to win back your ex then there are a few simple things you should think about beforehand.

Take a long look at yourself in the mirror and remember how you used to act when you first met your ex. Then try to think about how you acted once you became a serious item. Scrutinize the changes and see if you can get back to the person you used to be. If you manage to succeed then your chances of winning her back will be much better.

Break ups can cause a lot of pain but it is important that you do not let her know how much you are suffering. Accepting the situation and allowing yourself time to think about things is a good way to keep calm about the break up.

Try to remember all the good times that you had when you were together. Thinking about the bad times may prevent you from ever trying to get back together again.

Whatever happens after your break up, do not let her talk you into the position of just being friends. Given the previous intimacy of your relationship this is doomed to failure from the outset as there will inevitably be jealousy lingering.

Let her know that your main aim is to win her back and not just remain friends. This sort of friendship will cause nothing but hurt in the long haul.

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Cosmic Ordering For Beginners

By Julie Fargo

All of us have some desires and cosmic ordering refers to a process where these desires are identified and an order is placed to the cosmos for their fulfillment. You need to place an order to the cosmos with no worries or doubt in your mind.

Once you are clear about your desire and have placed an order to cosmos, just leave it there and wait for it to get achieved by the cosmos in its very own creative way. With cosmic ordering it is possible to get what you desire. This controls your positive energy and fulfills your desires. The theorists have come up with a new age scientific theory for cosmic ordering.

New Age theorists offer the following scientific theory for Cosmic Ordering. According to them it is the electro magnetic signals that control our reality or the world around us. Magnetic charge is given out by our emotions and electrical charge by our thoughts. If it is possible to tune your thoughts and emotions and harness the power of the charge produced, you will be able to efficiently control the universe which surrounds you and get what you desire.

To begin with this process you need to be absolutely clear on what is desired by you and imagine those desires as getting fulfilled. You should also be clear whether fulfillment of those desires give you any happiness or not. These desires should appeal to your heart and upon their fulfillment you should feel happy. Now place an order to the universe and imagine them as getting fulfilled.

When you are clear about your desires, you should begin to imagine them. With this imagination your emotions and thoughts will get tuned. Imagine as if the desire already exists and you have achieved it. You need to feel happy with the achievement of this desire. Once the thought process and the process of imagination are done on your desires, simply forget about those. This actually means that you have imagined something, placed an order for it and now are waiting for it to get fulfilled. You need to place the order to the cosmos and then leave it to the cosmos to fulfill your desire.

There are benefits attached to cosmic ordering. It helps you to remain focused. It has been reflected through research that you are likely to achieve your desires once you write them down. Your self confidence gets a boost once you start believing that something is possible.

You also experience positive experiences. With positive energy going to the cosmos, the reflection of this is through receiving positive opportunities and people and you eventually get healthier. Positive thinking promotes improvement in health and less tress.

Do the following this to ensure that you complete cosmic ordering process. Decide on what your goals are and do not lose faith or doubt their accomplishment. Make a note of these goals and keep them in a place that you could re read from. I reiterate that faith should not be lost and with this belief you will finally see them getting fulfilled. You will eventually see a change in your life with fulfillment of your goals.

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Saturday, November 13, 2010

Beware Of Early Downhill Signs To Avoid Split Up In A Relationship

By Gerald Smith

Often people who have dated and been in a relationship for a tidy period of time will drop their guard and not realize when the relationship is showing cracks. It is only until one morning when you wake up alone one on your bedside and a note on the pillow.

A sure sign is regarding the frequency or manner in which she says I love you. Does she leave you hanging when you tell her you love her. If this is true, you should urgently start to work towards setting the record straight once again.

Try to trace back to the time when things started going wayward for both of you. See if you have any idea of when the senses died off.

Thinking too much about the problem could lead you to desperate situations half the time. You should relax and probably learn that you were just assuming that she does not care.

There are times when people are simply to tied up with career issues until the relationship takes a few hits. You should pay attention to the changes that she may be going through at the work place and that way get the spark back. Sudden shocks in the life of a partner are the ones that lead to separation.

If there is one thing that can get you on the right track to recovery and get your girlfriend's approval, once again after cheating is to show that you are remorseful and that you want to make amends. Admit that it has been a goof, talk about it over a cup of coffee and turn away that anger welling inside her.

There are some times when the withdrawals are normally in response to your continued engrossment in your own career such that you ignore her. You should make her feel treasured once more by paying attention to her dreams too.

Come up with a few unexpected treats for her. Be spontaneous and have a break from the ordinary. This should serve as the right forum to bond with her and establish the missing connections. Show that you are on a mission to get her back.

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Friday, November 12, 2010

Life Purpose: Are You A Human Doing? A Human Having? Or A Human Being?

By Paul Saver

At some point in our lives most of us would have pondered the question: "What is my life purpose?". If you look to the internet and check the web sites run by savvy business entrepreneurs as well as some wannabe's, you will notice a message that goes something like this: "And you too my friend can have your cake and get to eat it as well. In other words, you can be, do and have to your heart's content"

As a budding entrepreneur myself I totally agree with this statement. My life purpose calls upon me to play full out and having it all. At the same time I ask myself, "are these three calls to action (being, doing and having) of equal merit or should we prioritize here?

What if world travel became my life passion and I was driven to just have lots and lots of cool experiences and this is what I lived for?

Or what if, I amassed lots of wealth beyond my expectations that enables me to acquire lots of the best things that money can buy and this is what is most important to me?

What if, my monetary wealth and status allows me to exert power and influence attracting the attention of significant others and I came to enjoy the power plays?

Or instead, what if becoming a person of great character became central in my life and in doing so, it open doors to meeting really quality people that became life long friends and this became really important in my life?

The more I think about my life purpose the more I realize that the things that human beings value the most are the things that are internal or intangible that money or power per se cannot acquire. Is there anything greater than love, trust, respect, compassion, generosity or good health?

Considering your life purpose, if you spend decades of your life accumulating money and things, it could all be lost in a moments notice. The economy could crash, technology could overtake you or your physical body, at any moment could be rendered unfit to pursue what you love to do.

To get to the crux, the quality of the inner person that has been carefully molded and shaped by you, remains as your eternal treasure. Never take for granted, that people will truly come to love you for the quality of person that you are, not for what you have got or what you can do.

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