Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, October 31, 2010

Procrastination As The Worst Enemy To Getting Things Done

By Paul Stuart

To run a productive and successful business calls for efficiency and meticulous planning on the part of the owner in order to expand and boost its services or the products. There are a few tips that one can use to avoid falling into the usual productivity traps. You can sidestep them completely and increase the productivity levels by far.

Procrastination: When tempted a lot to keep postponing the harder work you have to do for later, and think you should have a go at the simpler tasks first. This is a bad idea.

Procrastination tends to kill motivation because you will keep rescheduling the tougher tasks which will make them appear tougher than they really are. You need to form the habit of dealing with tasks as soon as they land on your desk as fast as you can without choosing; but the only priority should be the order of which ones are needed first.

Non Prioritization of work: It is very wrong to have the mentality that all tasks are equal and it does not matter however way you go about tackling them even without following any particular order; so long as you are busy working.

A rush begins when you suddenly realize that there are some tasks which were needed earlier than the others and that some were actually more important than the rest. This is why successful and productive people must prioritize work according to their importance and urgency.

Checking the email first thing in the morning: You might be thinking that it is a very wise move to first check the emails to see what is new every morning, but this is not what is recommended as fresh mail tends to distract you from the original schedules.

To keep off this trap, you should stick to the schedule and put in a whole hour of solid work before checking the mail each morning.

Some people tune their email program alerts to come on every time a new mail arrives, well what you will need to succeed is to turn that alarm off because it only serves as a distraction to you. Just stick meticulously to the tasks at hand and clear them all in the fastest time possible. This is the best way to grow and improve our business.

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Broken Relation Grief - You Can Overcome The 5 Five Stages

By Louis Cruz

Broken relationship grief and emotional grief are not much different. In fact they are about the same since emotional grief also has five stages. They both consist of the loss of someone special. Losing somebody you really love is a very hard event in life. But we all must at some point in the road of life encounter this experience. So knowing the five stages and becoming familiar with the stage in which you are will let you conquer and allow you to endure this hard time.

Denial

An attitude of denial ordinarily occurs after a close loving relationship is broken. A relationship that existed for years and out of the blue is finished could be very traumatic. You might one day come out of work and expect your ex to be outside waiting for you when you then recall that you broke up and that your ex is not coming.. And possibly never coming back to pick you up or meet you at work. This may be a difficult matter to accept. So you tell yourself, "Is this really happening", or "this cannot be".

Anger

Anger is the next emotion that we experience in this second stage. All stages are important but this stage is delicate. During this stage you are at the risk of manifesting your anger in the wrong way and to the wrong people. You may get angry at God. But believe me it is not his fault. Crazy things may go through your mind. You may think of getting even with your ex boy or girlfriend or even rejecting the people who so dearly love you and try to support and comfort you in this delicate time. This is definitely a stage where you need to make an effort to think before you talk and dedicate much time to reflection.

Bargaining

This is a very crucial stage. What makes this stage difficult is that the pain is making you wish that nothing is happening and that everything will go back to the way it was before. You wish it to be normal once more. So you start bargaining with your ex making promises hoping that you may convince your ex to come back to you. You may also end up making promises to God hoping that he will assist you to get everything you want. Or perform some miracle or something like that. You get false hopes in this stage. You are still trying to hang on to fake hopes and still suffering from denial.

Depression

At this stage you are finally realizing and feeling that all is lost and that there are no possibilities of you getting back together with your ex. So you sink into the stage of depression. You cannot see a clear future. You do not know what the future will hold for you and you begin to experience sadness and emotions of bitterness and frustration. The emotions are overwhelming and cause you to feel sorry for yourself. You also feel defenseless. All these emotions are in their peak in this stage. Of all stages this is a time to look for support in the persons who love you. It may they be family or friends. It is important to not lose faith completely. If you are spiritual, look for help from heaven and use all means possible to overcome this stage of depression. Understand that as time goes by, you will overcome this stage and realize that the future is really not that dim. There are still many beautiful things in life and beautiful people to meet. This takes us to the next stage.

Acceptance

You have gone through some serious stages of grief due to a broken relationship. But now you have fortunately come to the stage of acceptance. Despite the fact that the majority of the previous feelings still exist but you are not combating a great deal against destructive thoughts and false thoughts of hope. This stage of acceptance is not a stage of resignation. Put simply, you just have not given up on life. Quite the opposite, you now accept that you will not be sharing your life with your ex and reset your mind to accept this new life and realized that there is a future without your ex. You are driven to develop your goals gradually so that you can insure a bright future. You also recognize that your broken relationship is in the past and that you must go forward.

As you go through these stages you will finally get to the phase in which you will appreciate the things you experienced through this tough time. Continue to look for support in good friends and always have someone you can talk to. Pray and meditate a lot.

Please remember that countless others are coping with your same challenge. You are not alone. You can and will make it through this broken relationship grief.

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Saturday, October 30, 2010

What Are The Benefits Of Life Regression Therapy

By Simon Bateman

Life regression therapy is a known and well-established therapy which is used to deal with different types of traumas in ones life. Psychotherapists are known to use hypnosis and delusion to make their patients recall experiences and incidents from their past life.

There are some practitioners who use life regression therapy to find a solution to current-life problems of their patients. They ask questions that help patients bring back memories of past lives. The patients are able to bring back to memory their identity and situations.

It is also believed that many a times, past life is one of the main reason for their present psychological problems and therefore life regression therapy comes in handy to help these patients.

Life regression therapies are used by many physicians to relieve and treat people of their stress and help them in living a normal life by getting rid of their past life problems. Many people even suffer from high of levels of anxiety and even nightmares. This therapy helps people to get rid of their obstacles and also the blocks to their inner joy and happiness.

Also you could refer many books on life regression therapy as well. About a few years back, people did not really believe in life regression therapy and its techniques. But then more and more people are finding positive results to their problems by using these therapies and this branch of science have also started gaining popularity slowly.

Some books about life regression therapy also reveals that how ones past and present lives are inter-related and few practitioners use this therapy to the bridge gap between past and present life and improve the future of their patients.

Life regression therapy is used by many physicians to cure patients not only with their psychological problems but also cure them of with their physical and emotional pains. They use this therapy to gradually progress their patient's life to a happy and healthy future.

Many people may still not believe in beneficial aspects of past life regression therapy. They disregard this technique as mere fantasy or delusion and do not have faith in its effectiveness.

A past life regression is generally undertaken by people who are in pursuit of some spiritual experience or even in a psychotherapeutic setting to get rid of some problems. Staunch religious people rather have a strong faith in past life regression while few others just take it as another thought.

The life regression therapy technique sessions involves few vivid and realistic experiences. Sometimes, these techniques use two of the senses of the patients. The senses can either be vision, hearing, or physical sensations or even a combination of both.

At other times, these experiences may involve only a few subtle images and feelings. In any case, they are enough to form a conclusion about what the person is going through. Most life regression sessions involve only the facilitator and the experience. The session begins with a discussion and is followed by regression.

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Friday, October 29, 2010

Things You Need To Do And Not Do For A Successful Cosmic Order

By Helen Bush

Understanding the basics of how to do cosmic order is all what is required for achieving desired results. This kind of thing is natural for many walks of life. If this procedure of cosmic order is the first time you hearing about, then read this article and it will not take you long to find your connection with the universe all over again. Mentioned below are some easy tips for you to understand how to achieve your desires.

Be very sure and accurate on what you desire for or what you want. Let's take an example, if you want a digital camera for yourself, then you should be very specific which brand and what model you desire for. Just thinking about a digital camera without any further elaborate details will not do. Do you want to become an artist or do want a job in a corporate field.

Never talk about your cosmic orders. A person needs to have a firm belief with their positive experiences with cosmic orders, only then it is advised to talk about their experiences and help others achieve success with their own desired orders.

Cosmic order is all about being positive or living positively. This is how you will able to succeed in whatever you have desire for to come true. Do give any space to negative thoughts. If for once you feel negative about your desires, it is sure that the process ends there. It is really important that you should remain cheerful and positive throughout.

Now, here are a few things which you need to do: Believing in Law of Attraction is the most vital thing and the cosmic order has to be very specific. For example, if your want to gain weight and tired of being skinny then you should be specific on how much you want to gain. Whatever you desire for, be specific and you will hundred percent receive it.

This process of cosmic order of being positive and living as if you have already achieved your desires come with benefits like, positivity is all around you with people full of joy, your work stress becomes low and you tend to be happy and gay every now and then.

Always remember that when the actual time comes when you receive what you had actually desired, don't forget to thank the universe. This is really important, even though you won't get a reply but still you need to thank the law of universe so that the process of cosmic order remains beneficial for you in future too.

In short, be positive and never be surrounded with negative thoughts. Stay focused, you should know exactly what you desire for. Never give up in the process of cosmic order and at the end, don't forget to thank the law of universe.

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Understand Cosmic Ordering

By Allison McIssaak

Cosmic ordering refers to a belief that persons can use their wishes to attach with the cosmos and make those wishes turn into a reality.

Cosmic Ordering theory works in the following way - you take a decision on what you want and when you want it.

A declaration is made to the cosmos after the decision taken by is finalized. Then you go ahead and make an announcement of this decision to the cosmos the way you like to; this could be simply placing an order or with some rituals with quick thoughts. There are no limits of your desires or to cosmic ordering. You can ask for anything that you desire whether it is for professional reasons or for personal desires. The only requirement that is essential her is that you be open, positive and at ease.

Now the question that arises is that where or to whom exactly does the order go? Well there is a belief that to some degree the order is placed on yourself as you have an influence on the reality of your expectations. A close look at some basics of cosmic ordering is as below:

Firstly you must know what it is that you desire. Be aware of the real desires and know what you really want.

In order to understand your desires correctly and clearly spend some time with yourself. The moment you gain clarity about your desires and wishes you must begin to imagine them. Also you must try to find out what feelings are associated with this desire - good or bad?

This act of making and placing your decision becomes an order. So it's essential that you desire the right thing that makes you happy.

After this step just let it go. Once you have placed your cosmic order, you're done. Now you can focus on something else, something that makes you feel good. You need to be sure to keep a light, casual, happy feeling about it after your cosmic order is completed.

Cosmic Ordering is now the in New Age faith. The basic standard in this is that no matter what you place an order and your desire will come true with cosmic order.

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

What Are The Benefits Of Life Regression Therapy

By Simon Bateman

Life regression therapy is a well known and also a well-established therapy. This is used to deal with different kinds of traumas in life. Psychotherapists are known to use hypnosis and delusion therapies to help their patients recall the experiences and situations from their past life.

There are also some therapists who use this life regression therapy to find a solution to the individual's problems in the present. They tend to ask questions that might help the patients to bring back the memories of their past lives. The patients are able to bring back to memory about their past identity and situations that troubled them.

It is believed that many times, past life is a reason for present psychological problems and therefore life regression therapy is used to cure patients.

Life regression therapies are effectively used to relieve people of their stress and help them in living a normal life. Many a people suffer from high of levels of anxiety and even nightmares. The therapy helps people to get rid of obstacles and blocks to their inner joy and happiness.

Also you could refer many books on life regression therapy as well. About a few years back, people did not really believe in life regression therapy and its techniques. But then more and more people are finding positive results to their problems by using these therapies and this branch of science have also started gaining popularity slowly.

Some books about life regression therapy also reveals that how ones past and present lives are inter-related and few practitioners use this therapy to the bridge gap between past and present life and improve the future of their patients.

Life regression therapy is used by many physicians to cure patients with their psychological problems and is also known to cure them of with their physical and emotional pains. They use this therapy to gradually progress their patient's life to a happy and healthy future.

Many people may still not believe in beneficial aspects of past life regression therapy. They disregard this technique as mere fantasy or delusion and do not have faith in its effectiveness.

A past life regression is typically undertaken by people in pursuit of some spiritual experience or in a psychotherapeutic setting to get rid of some problems. Staunch religious people have strong faith in past life regression while others take it as just another thought.

The typical life regression therapy technique session involves few vivid and realistic experiences. Sometimes, these techniques use two of the senses. The senses may either be vision, hearing, or physical sensations or even a combination of both.

Most of the time the life regression sessions only involves the facilitator and the experience. The session generally begins with a discussion and is followed by a regression.

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What Is Meant By Cosmic Ordering?

By Allison McIssaak

Cosmic ordering refers to a belief that persons can use their wishes to attach with the cosmos and make those wishes turn into a reality.

It is in the following manner that the theory of cosmic ordering works. You take a decision on what you desire and when you would like to achieve that thing.

Then you make an announcement of your cosmic order to the cosmos. This decision is announced in ways that suit you; whether with a bit of rituals or by simply placing an order with a fast thinking. There are no limitations put to cosmic ordering and you can ask for anything personal, professional desires. There is only one requirement here and that is that you be positive, open and at ease.

When we look at where or to whom exactly does the order go, it's believed that to some degree you order yourself as you have an influence on the reality of your expectations. Let us look at some basics of cosmic ordering.

To begin with you must be aware of your desire. What is it that you really want? What really gives you happiness? This step is essential in cosmic ordering and it does not refer to what you've been trained to want and what is desired by your friends and family.

It's essential to spend some time with yourself in order to understand your desires clearly. Once you are clear and certain about your desires, you must start imagining your desires. In addition try to find out whether this desire gives you a good or bad feeling.

This act of making and placing your decision becomes an order. So it's essential that you desire the right thing that makes you happy.

Therefore this act of making and placing your decision becomes an order. You just let go after this step. You are done once you have placed your cosmic order. Post this you can focus on something else.

Cosmic Ordering is now the in New Age faith. The basic standard in this is that no matter what you place an order and your desire will come true with cosmic order.

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