Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, July 16, 2010

The Benefits Of Manifestation

By William J Hill

To find out if we need to know what manifestation is and why we need it. Manifestation is something that occurs deep within our own minds. It is a development of an idea, thought, need or desire. Once we have achieved what we seek then it manifests itself. Manifestation is the process and culmination of these things that helps develop the outcome.

We need manifestation because it can help us achieve so much more in life and sometimes even better. It helps with ever growing problem of work life balance. It can help give you direction where you once felt lost. Give you more time to concentrate on what really matters to you and not worry about the little things in life.

We all think we lead hectic lives running around trying to please everyone, working as hard as we can at work and even running around just so we can have a relaxing weekend. It does not have to be like that, rush, and rush all the time. With manifestation we can stop the clock and slow down and relax more and be just happy.

Manifestation brings about a great sense of satisfaction, purpose and achievement in one's self when you have thought really long and hard what you want out of life and then gone out there and helped to manifest it.

Manifestation needs the right kind of attitude. You need to be able to focus on your goals in life and be specific about them. It's no good saying you want to be rich. Who doesn't want to be rich? You have to be more specific like I want to be rich selling houses for example. Then you need to install confidence in yourself and be committed to a plan of action. Start telling yourself that you can do it over and over again out loud to yourself. This may sound silly but it will install belief in you and confidence which will eventually manifest itself in your chosen goal of being rich by selling houses.

Politicians use it all the time. They have a goal to stay in power or win power. They need to give the public what they want. For example lower taxes may win them power. This is a big task that needs to be broken down focusing on the main taxes i.e. income tax and Value Added Tax. Staying committed to this main area and constantly concentrating on it with willpower and confidence oozing showing the public you know what you are doing works.

Manifestation will help you make sense of your life better. Tell you want you really want in life; look at something a bit more different and appreciate what is going on around you. It's a whole new lifestyle something you have probably wanted for years. It will not happen overnight but give it a chance and it will.

Manifestation helps you efficiently use your mind more effectively leading to a better and happier style of life. Only you can help yourself at the end of the day. Nobody should have to be second best in life or unhappy with life.

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Thursday, July 15, 2010

Why A Business Needs To Instill A Win-Win Situation For All Who Plays A Part In It

By Matt Palmer

It must be a win win situation for all that are involved in business. Furthermore, even the Bible lets us know that all men must walk away with equal profits.

In reality, this is the only way everyone will feel that the transaction was fair for every person. Having been involved in deals worth of small as well as big sums of money, everyone walked away with a fair amount in each of those transactions in relation to the amounts they put into the deal and how much they got out of it.

If you do not believe in creating win win situations in life, you will not only be unhappy but you will always be looking to get one over on someone. Definitely, this is not the way business is meant to be played.

I am young and still getting more knowledge on the game, but I am also aware that you have to work with people that uphold high integrity that appreciate the win win theory.

If you are presently working with people that are not upholding high integrity, you will want to reconsider working with them. This is because your chances of succeeding for the long term are very minimal. Ideally, you might make some money in a short period, but it probably may not be a long term situation that will continue with time.

When we were kids, we were taught this win win concept in the form of sharing but as we grew up and became adults, we forgot about it. Time should be wisely invested in this concept by applying it in all parts of life, not just business.

Sharing as an adult is necessary when you are transacting as this creates a win win situations for everyone. Older men's advises have come to me in different words concerning this seeing that they have gone through many experiences in business as well as life.

If you want to be successful in all the areas of life, not just business, it would be prudent that you follow this one principle that has stood the test of time.

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Beautiful Funeral Songs And Music To Enhance Your Memorial Service

By Tom Tree

The people are all there to mourn your loss. They remember what they have lost themselves. The thing that families want to do is try to make an experience to last by adding special things to the funeral that will honor the person whom they have lost. You can enhance your memorial service with beautiful funeral songs and music.

It has all been done before at a funeral. There have been some who have had slow band play music. Some have had music that is lively and upbeat at their wedding. They will tell you that they don't want you to mourn. This is how you can really enhance your funeral with song.

Some people have someone do a solo. At our cousins funeral they had a solo done by his brother who plays the saxophone. You can have an instrumental solo as well as a vocal. Heck, you can have both if you'd like. It's your final celebration. This is just another way to enhance your funeral service.

There are others who think that music song by the people who mourn together is appropriate. This is why they sometimes go about and choose a hymn that is to be sung. On a religious level, it's the idea that the person would be singing it there with you as well. This is how others use music at their memorial service to enhance it.

Last of all, you can then have music that is quite common to play. There are songs that when you go to a funeral, you almost expect to sing them. Those are used and when people think of them, they think of laying a person to rest. Normally, there are a few suggestions you can ask someone about and they can list them off the top of their head.

Music has been played at memorial services for a number of reasons. It adds a peaceful touch. Sometimes, it fills in where words can't describe what people are feeling. It gives people time to reflect. This is how it enhances a memorial service and it might be something you want to consider as you plan yours or someone else's memorial service.

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Wednesday, July 14, 2010

From Past Life To Now

By Andrew Ridgeway

From Past Life to present where fragments of who you are and how you came to be are recovered. There are times when everyone has walked into a new minute in their life and felt a sense of familiarity. An experience that has never happened is happening, yet again. This is a moment of celebration, and the opportunities it presents are completely up to you.

It is common for most people to consider the possibility of having lived a life in another time. The thought may be a passing idea until a pattern of unexplained and reoccurring circumstances keep appearing. Revolving dreams, unknown talents and behaviors may all be contributing factors of another self and time, searching for closure.

Having a calling to understand these sequence of events may change your relationship to the world forever. Your most cherished relationships, health and finances can take a positive turn. Your entire life can become more gratifying, and this could only be the greatest news. Now you only need the courage to proceed.

Emotional scars are hard to identify because the emotional self is usually revealed under duress. Unresolved trauma does not just go away, it has to be healed to dissolve. Every experience that has not been properly addressed will wait and travel with you. Whether you mean to pack it up and take it along is not your choice; it is waiting to be owned and embraced.

Deciding to take a journey permits time to get organized and clear about what you want from the experience. You would consider the weather, time zone and society you are going to encounter. You would allow yourself permission to be open to the unexpected, and make provisions for what they might be. Once you arrive, you might find that the journey has a familiarity to it. Don't fight it, it's just the luggage from a previous life traveling with you.

You will have moments where a new moment takes on the liking of a moment lived in a previous time. A conversation that you are having, feels like its already happened. It is practical to pause and categorize it as a Deja Vu moment. Hold onto it and allow it to serve you for future framework; it is a piece of the luggage from a previous life.

The idea of being in control of your movement in the world can be comforting. You are living inside of the experience and are conscious of your participation. Depending on your belief system, the experience may be lived as if there is no tomorrow. For others the experience might consciously be lived as an opportunity to repair and become anew. Every decision aids in the packing for the next journey, traveling light is preferred by most.

The idea of being in charge of your choices in the world can be reassuring. You are present in your process and aware of your participation. You might be living as if tomorrow is not promised; or you make take as many opportunities as you can to repair and become anew. Your approach can recreate an opportunity for a broader understanding.

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Therapy Options For Kids Experiencing Past Life Regression

By Louis Cambell

There are many documented reports of young children that have experienced past life regression. Parents oftentimes do not know what to do in such instances and ultimately seek therapy for their children. Past life therapy for young children consists of helping the child cope with memories that may be well beyond their years and level of understanding.

Parents of children that are experiencing past life memories are oftentimes at a lost for what to do. They do not have the skills or tools necessary to help their child. At first, the problem is hard to detect. But when the stories become so vivid and detailed of past life experiences then they know it is something greater than a child's ability to be imaginative.

Sometimes children may experience problems associated with their unique condition. It may poorly affect their performance in school. Parents may notice a decline in their child's grades. Or they may receive reports that their child is acting out or having trouble getting along with other children. Problems within the home may also occur. This is when therapy is vital to a child's healing.

Therapy is widely recommended for parents that have children that have past life memories. Every child reacts differently. Some may become withdrawn, their behavior and grades in school may decline. They may even start demonstrating disruptive behavioral patterns within the home. Therapy is the best option when this occurs.

As a result of the past life memories, children have been known to experience physical and or emotional illness. When they can not properly process what is happening on a mental or intellectual level, then symptoms may impose themselves in a physical nature. Children may become prone to headaches or digestions problems due to the anxiety associated with their past life memories. Therapy then becomes a means to help alleviate these symptoms. Once these physical and emotional issues are addressed, therapist can then teach the children coping mechanisms so they can reconnect to their inner emotions in a healthy manner.

It is widely encouraged for parents to be included in the therapy sessions. Not only are they present but they are also asked to participate in the various treatment methods. This is important for the entire family. Parents receive a deeper understanding of their child's condition. And the children do not feel isolated, realizing they are not alone.

Children sometimes hold on to certain fears or anxieties that stem from within the family. The conflicted emotions and past experiences are transferred from the parent to the child. In very unique cases, children can relive their parent's past experiences. Therapy will help these revelations to come to the surface and facilitate the healing process.

There are several different methods used in helping a child cope with their condition. They may be asked to relive the life regression and talk about their experiences; who they are, what they do and see in this other life. What they like and dislike about their experience. And how it makes them feel when these experiences occur. The child is then allowed to focus on the regression which alleviates most of the fear.

The child may also be asked to repeat the sounds, smells or emotions they feel. Hypnotherapy may be utilized to help the child recall their experience. Once they are in a hypnotic state, the therapist is able to get to the core of any behavioral issues the child may be displaying. Therapy is recommended to help the child manage their experiences.

Therapeutic methods for children may also include drawing pictures of their past experience. Therapist may also use a technique called kenesiologic muscle test. During this test children are asked to recall how certain body parts felt during their past memory. To make the test more fun, therapist may ask the child to directly ask questions of their arm or leg. Asking their own limbs how they felt, what they stepped in, what they touched during a past life experience. This is a fun and interactive way to help children associate with their experiences.

Visualization is another technique used by therapist. Children may be asked to picture themselves in a very relaxed image. They may even be asked to picture themselves sailing among the clouds. Whatever image that will help the child to remain calm during the session. Which ever method is used, therapy for children that experience past life regression is highly recommended as this is a very unique and complicated condition.

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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Dealing With Grief

By Leola Goldhirsh

Dealing with grief is something that almost all of us have to deal with at some point in our life.

It's only natural for us to find it hard to deal with losing somebody. Its natural for us to grieve. In the rest of this article you will learn some tips to help you get past the grief.

Grieving is totally natural. In fact if you lost somebody that you loved and didn't grief that would be unnatural. The first thing you need to know is that it's OK to grieve.

Starting a new hobby that you find enjoyable is a great way to get over grief. A hobby gives you something to focus on them something to look forward to. It keeps you focused.

Physical exercise is another great grief reliever. Going for a run or a swim is a great way to take your mind off of things and de stress. Whenever I get stressed I find it wonderful to go for a run with my headphones on and get some fresh air. And then afterwards to take a nice shower and then watch a film.

Possibly the best way to help you deal with grief is to start a diary. In your diary you can talk about how you feel and even talk about the person that you miss. Treat your diary like your best friend and tell it everything. This will help get your feelings off your chest and get over grief.

It's important when trying to get over grief that you keep yourself busy. By this I don't mean you should constantly be active I just mean that when you're feeling a bit sad just get up and do something. Tidying up is a good way to get your mind off of the grief.

It's extremely important when you're grieving to remember that you still have a future. It may not seem so while you are grieving but try to think of your future.

Try to remember these tips when you're dealing with grief.

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Understanding The World Of The Psychic

By Charles Blair

If you are a person who can perceive information from the surroundings which is otherwise hidden from others, or in other words, cannot be perceived from the usual five senses of sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch, then you can be termed as a psychic. Thus, a psychic is someone who has the gift of sixth sense or extra sensory perception.

Many a times it happens that if a loved one is thousands of miles away, one can see him/her meeting an accident or winning a cup, one may also dream about certain things which later on come true. There are numerous such examples of psychic experiences in the world where science cannot always explain the cause. The most common psychic experiences are those of telepathy, precognition and clairvoyance.

If you perceive what the person sitting next to you is thinking in his mind, you are a psychic with the power of telepathy. That is, you have the ability to mind read and in further advanced stages might also be able to infuse your own thoughts into the minds of others.

If a psychic has the special ability to gain knowledge about the future, then the psychic is known to have the power of precognition. Thus, accurate prediction of future events or incidents by a psychic is the result of his precognitive abilities. This type of psychic power is the most common in the world and needless to say that it is also the most popular, owing to the fact the humans have an innate desire to know about what the future holds for them.

Thirdly, if you have highly developed clear viewing capabilities and can experience 'seeing' things which others cannot, than you are a psychic clairvoyant. Examples of clairvoyance might be ability to see a loved one who is far away, ability to see the aura of another person or even ability to see spirits, so on and so forth.

Other powers or abilities that a psychic might have, can be that of ability to move things with mind power, ability to levitate off the ground, ability to perceive the field of energies in different colours coming out from an individual, ability to float out from your physical body during sleep, ability to communicate with spirits, etc.

If a person wants to find out whether he is a psychic or not then he can get himself tested. Nowadays, hundreds of online psychic tests can be availed of with a few clicks in front of your computer which can tell you whether you are a psychic or not. You can get yourself tested by a research institute in a clinical set up which would give you more accurate and detailed results in case you want to know the extent of your psychic abilities.

The oldest and highly popular test of zener cards tests both existence as well as intensity. Here a deck of cards is used with each card having a symbol. The process starts with the removal of a card after which you need to state that cards symbol using your extra sensory perceptions. This goes on till the deck is finished and thereafter the score is given based on the test's inbuilt algorithms to reflect whether you have 'no ability', 'some ability', 'significant ability' or 'very significant ability' thereof. If you find that you are a true psychic having significant or higher abilities, be sure to put your power to good use so that it comes to the help of other fellow human beings.

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