Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, June 25, 2010

The Christian Family Experiences In Memorial Service

By Tom Tree

Certain elements of a funeral are expected to take place when a person who is a member of a Christian family passes away. There are traditions that have been part of Christian funerals for centuries. Others have more recently become customary and are now frequently integrated into the services. The most important ethnic traditions in funeral service - Christian family members will want to be sure to include is the reading of scripture.

Services are usually held at a church or at a funeral home. Often times, the body of the deceased family member is at the funeral home for several days prior to the funeral service. It is taken care of by the undertaker, or funeral director, and prepared for burial.

The body is then placed in a casket and kept at the home if that is where the funeral will take place. If the service is to take place at a church, it is held at the home until just before the funeral, and taken to the church in a type of automobile called a hearse. If the body is going to be cremated, the service can be conducted without the body present, or the cremation can take place after the service is over.

There is typically an open house called a viewing, wake, or visitation the night before the funeral. These take place so that loved ones of the deceased can gather and offer condolences. The casket containing the body is also present, and attendees are able to view it and say their final farewells.

There is usually an obituary placed in the local newspaper that serves as a notice of the death to the community. The time and location of the visitation and funeral service are usually noted there, unless the funeral is to be private, for family only.

A minister or pastor traditionally conducts the service, regardless if it is held at a funeral home or a church. Scripture from the Bible is read to give hope and encouragement to the mourners in attendance. After the service, if the deceased is to be buried, not cremated, there is a graveside service where family and friends gather at the cemetery where the grave is located, and watch as the body is lowered into the ground. Following the graveside and funeral services, those attending return to the funeral home or church for a brief time of fellowship and remembering of the deceased.

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Thursday, June 24, 2010

I LOVE Mornings! Don't You?

By Kim Thornton

Do you complain about mornings, especially Monday morning? It's something that seems to be endemic in our society. And that's a real shame.

But pause for a moment and think about the alternative.

Anyone who complains about morning should keep this that in mind, If it's a choice between waking up and not, well, which do you prefer?

But for most MCs (morning complainers) it's not a question of waking up or not, it's what their life is like when they do wake up. The way I see it is, if you're complaining about waking up in the morning, you must be pretty unhappy about your lot in life. Wouldn't you agree?

Let's face it, waking up with a new day laid out before you, 24 new fresh hours ready for you to experience is really a wonderful gift.

Now I know that every minute of every day can be filled with pure joy and happiness. Every waking moment can't be overflowing with enthusiasm. That's simply unrealistic. We all have things we must do that we'd rather not. There are mundane boring activities that must be attended to. But... to "hate" mornings speaks volumes to me. It says you've made some poor choices in life. Let's face it, if thinking about doing some unpleasant tasks colors your entire perspective on life, wake up and smell the roses!

Because life really is all the choices we make. We make hundreds, maybe thousands of them every day. The vast majority of our choices are small such as what shirt to wear or should I have that second cup of coffee, and a few are major such as the decision to buy a new house or to find a new job.

Some of our choices involve physical things as mentioned above. But many are strictly between the ears! And that's what I want to focus on in the rest of this article. And it brings us back to the MCs.

We all make the choice of waking up to a day full of opportunities and challenges or focusing on all the things we dread.

It's a question of choices.

Let's say you find yourself in a job you detest. Why are you there? What choices did you make to get there and what choices are you making that keep you there?

Is your choosing to be miserable making things worse. Could you improve your enjoyment of life if you simple made a choice to be happier, to greet people with a smile and to be more helpful?

Whether you like it and accept it or not, we all choose the outlook we have towards life. It really is sad that a lot of people choose to be victims. And yes, that is a choice people make. Maybe not consciously, but that's the nature of being a victim. In reality most people who play the victim role won't even recognize themselves as such.

Now I'm not saying that you choose to be a victim, it's just an example. What I am going to do though, is challenge you to take a serious look at your perspective on life.

If you fall short, in other words if you don't view life as a great and wonderful adventure that you anticipate with enthusiasm every day, I challenge you to make some new choices. Do you need to find some new opportunities to go after or do you simply need to start seeing life in a new light?

It's your choice!

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Five Foundations Of A Christian Worldview

By Walter Lindgren

Christian believers typically adhere to five traditions that form a worldview that shapes the nature of their beliefs. This outlook may also contain characteristics that other individuals perceive as factors which, in fact, identify a person as a Christian. The article that follows is not intended to be a creed or the final statement on the matter, but a dependable outline of Christian beliefs.

The first point of such a worldview is belief in a single God, monotheism, and an over-arching love of the deity who is specifically accountable for all creation. With this as the foundation of a Christian worldview, for example, an individual's opinion of concepts that do not acknowledge God or that do not recognize the origin of creation will lead to a lack of agreement with these ideas.

The second factor in a Christian worldview is acceptance of Jesus as the son of God and the only salvation for humans, in the sense that Jesus is the path to everlasting life in heaven. In order to be a "Christian," the meaning of the term requires literal faith in Jesus as a personal savior. This affects an individual's worldview in several ways, primarily in the contexts of knowing that others who believe in Jesus are also saved, that those who reject this belief are not part of the church community, and that there may be a need for educating others about the Christian faith.

The third element of describing a worldview for the Christian faith is a belief in the Holy Ghost (or Spirit) as the active presence of God's power, especially as shown by the acts of the apostles. This leads to the need for good works, or positive actions, through the church and within the community. A Christian approach to life will develop active expressions of one's faith to affect other people.

The fourth component of such a worldview would be the notion of Christians as people of the book, biblios, the Bible. The Bible functions as a source of inspiration and specifically describes the point of view that each Christian should use to evaluate the events of their lives. The New Testament shows people how to believe, think, and act in order to be Christians which, in turn, forms one's worldview.

And the fifth element is the instruction that Christians are to demonstrate their "love" for other people in every aspect of their lives. From the basis of choosing to love other people, a Christian worldview accepts that all things will ultimately demonstrate God's love for his faithful, that belief in Jesus is the path to everlasting life, and that Christians can express that love through their actions toward others.

A worldview developed from these five Christian principles may lead to the personal observation that God will take care of all things in good time, and that belief in Jesus, faith in the community of the church, and actions that express love toward others will result in a calm, peaceful, joyous life, though not without sufferings of the faith and physical world. And it is the promise of salvation through Jesus that gives genuine meaning to the Christian worldview.

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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Funeral Services And Practices Vary From Culture To Culture

By Adriana Noton

Funeral services are the ceremonies that the world's cultures hold to commemorate the life of one who has been loved that is lost to death. The rituals, customs, and the prayers that have been attached to the practice of rendering honor to the dead vary from country to country. Some create memorials, shrines, or monuments to those that are snatched away by death.

A practice that is common in Canada and the United States is the funeral ceremony where a clergyman officiates. The man often speaks a sermon that involve passages of comfort from texts of a religious nature, a prayer, and a eulogy that discusses the deceased and his, or her, accomplishments in life. After that ritual has finished then there may be second and shorter service at the graveside following a procession out to that location.

Another practice that is unique to one part of the United States is the New Orleans Jazz Funeral. A procession begins at the site of the memorial service and concludes at the site of burial. It consists of a jazz band, family members and friends of the deceased. The music that plays are sad and somber dirges. After the final ceremony at the graveside the procession continues on to a gathering place. During that particular march the music is replaced by music that one can dance to while waving hats and umbrellas in order to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Yet another practice is one that suits the preferences of those who are environmentally conscious. It is called a green funeral. This allows those that have concerns about how traditional burial practices impact the environment can opt to have their remains buried in a way more in line with their beliefs. For example they may choose to be buried in a shroud or coffin that is biodegradable. Their chosen burial place may be in a parkland where they have a tree planted on their grave as a memorial.

Some funeral homes or chapels offer the option of an internet visitation and funeral service. Friends, family, and others who otherwise would be unable to attend can do so via a web cam and computer set up connected to the internet. Thus the support network for those left behind by the deceased can be connected regardless of weather, distance, or circumstance.

How the dead have final disposition can be as varied as the funeral rites themselves. Such as there are many lands in which the remains are placed in a family crypt, individual tomb, or a burial plot. In some areas underground burials are not practical because the ground water is too high. Thus the remains have to be put in a tomb that is above ground. The above ground tombs that are really grand in appearance are often called mausoleums and are used for the dead of the wealthy and prominent families.

Another burial practice that is used is what is know as a burial at sea. It has usually been performed when a death has occur ed aboard a ship that belongs to a seafaring country. The remains are wrapped up in some way and then weights are attached in order to make the body sink at the time it is dropped overboard. Many of the world's major religions have created special services for just this type of occasion.

Funeral services and their associated practices in the would are varied. In point of fact the kinds of rituals that are practiced are as varied as there are peoples, cultures, and countries on the earth. Thus if a memorial for one who is loved can have any form desired.

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A Smart Way To Get Life Insurance Quotes

By Rodney Daniel Bolton

The insurance industry is quite a complicated one. And, this is the same for coverage regarding life, automobile, home or renters, or any other type. It is one in which it requires knowledge and research as well as experience. So, having said that, the best ways to get life insurance quotes is by putting in your own effort and talking to professionals.

If you've never had life insurance, then it is recommended that you speak to those who have. People in your circle of friends and family could certainly help out. They can also recommend someone that they have been associated with either in the past or present.

While people you trust can be helpful, don't stop there. Remember, nowadays, people have the Internet that they can refer to at any given moment. So, it's easy to get answers and good information from the best resources, including the government.

After informing yourself to the best of your ability, visit various websites that allow you to do quotation's online. They're quick and easy to do. Of course, how precise the quotation is depends completely on the amount of information you provide to the various insurers. If you feel wary about providing detailed personal information, just do simple comparison shopping.

The good thing is that you can do as many quotations as you like, totally free of charge. However, some might charge for the service. If so, you could avoid them and just move on. You'll notice that there will be many differences between insurers. They could differ in the terms as well as the coverage, and in the rates they charge.

Once you have followed the step above, then you should be able to discuss in more detail with a professional. Here, you'll understand some more of the lingo used in the industry, and they'll be able to answer any questions you have. More often than not, you will have several questions.

If you find some deals, you should be approaching them with more caution. Depending on where you live, the insurance industry is government regulated. Many countries require them to have money set aside to provide the insurance people have paid for. So, more often than not, you will be protected. But you should be certain of this to avoid any problems in the future, which is what life insurance is for. The bottom line is you want your loved ones to be protected financially in the event of death.

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Tuesday, June 22, 2010

A Two-Step System For Optimal Crystal Cleansing

By Isabelle Morton

Decades ago, people once again became aware that crystals and crystal clusters are effective healing tools. Their capabilities are extensive, especially when they receive proper care. In therapeutic situations, crystals eliminate unwanted energies from the patient's body and aura. As time passes, unwanted energies pervade both the surface of crystals and their energy field. If not cleansed properly, unwanted energies can impair the crystal's healing abilities. It's much like needing to rid your desk of clutter before you can get back to work.

If crystal clusters are being used to keep rooms in your house or office uplifted and clear, it is necessary to cleanse the clusters each time you dust the area, or every couple of weeks. Cleanse individual healing crystals after each therapy session in which you use them. This is important because neglecting to cleanse can be risky. Unwanted energies that a crystal picks up from one patient may be passed on to the next. Second, to prevent the following patient from being exposed to these energies, you as the practitioner, might pick them up yourself. Third, if the crystals are not cleansed between patients, they will continue to absorb unwanted energies, eventually clouding the crystal and restricting its abilities as a healing tool.

The good news is that crystals respond particularly well to cleansing. Start by cleansing your healing crystals with water. This will remove the dust and dirt that accumulates on the crystals' surface. Use running water from your sink only if your tap water is non-chlorinated. You will also need an old toothbrush and some mild soap or detergent. Hold your crystals under the running water, put some detergent on the toothbrush, and brush the crystal surfaces.

Periodically, switch the water between hot and cold. While the soap removes the physical dirt and dust from the crystals, the motion of the running water helps to remove unwanted energies your healing crystals may have picked up during therapeutic use, or while helping to keep the energy in a room uplifted and clear. If your tap water is treated, pour some purified water into a large measuring cup or pitcher. Cleanse the crystals with the soapy toothbrush as before, but rather than using your faucet, rinse them by pouring the purified water over them.

Once the crystals are physically cleansed, you can also clear their energy field using GEMFormulas Energy Clearing Cleansing Spray. This will eliminate unwanted energies that the energy field may have picked up.

The running water method is unable to remove electromagnetic radiation (EMR). Crystals can pick up EMR in environments with high electromagnetic fields, and also if the crystals pick up EMR from a patient during a therapy session. The GEMFormulas EMR Protection Clearing Spray was specifically designed to tackle this problem. To remove EMR from your crystals, spray them with this formula.

Spray the GEMFormulas Diamond Healing Rejuvenating Spray on your crystals to bring forward their true purpose, and uplift their vibrations even more. You should be able to tell, intuitively, how far away to hold the spray, and at what angle. As you continue to customize your use of all three sprays, their cleansing and rejuvenating properties will become more effective.

Using GEMFormulas sprays following a soap and water bath on your crystals will leave them energetically cleansed, and allow their maximum healing potential to shine through.

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Looking Into Different Headstone Features

By Tom Tree

When you are looking at the different headstone features that are available you will have many. Not only do you have several choices of the rock that these are made of but many other fabulous features too. There are also features that are less desirable that you may want to be aware of.

Knowing a bit about the different options and what is good and bad will lead you to the right choice for a headstone. Though you will still need to decide these tips can help with that decision in making a lasting remembrance for your loved one. Slate has been a very popular choice of many for years. This stone is one that is very easy to engrave, but it is also one of the softest choices.

Marble is a harder rock and will offer you a more durable choice of headstone. Though surprisingly enough it is not very much more durable than that slate option that we have already talked about. Yes it is something that will create a beautiful remembrance of your loved one. However, over time that engraving may become impossible to read.

Gaining popularity during the 40s was the choice of granite. Not only was it giving a choice in different colors than slate or marble, but it was more durable than those too. It was a choice that would find a stone that was hard to break.

It is something that takes a lot of rock to make though, and can cause a lot of strain on a quarry. Making it an option that at times can seem like something that is harming the environment. But you do have other choices of more environmentally friendly headstones to look into.

While a more popular choice is that of composite plant material. A headstone that will be created and is friendly to the environment, it has become quite popular. With this choice you get a very durable option, plus many colors to choose from too.

You also have the choice of using bronze for those headstones. Bronze is easy to form and shape into many forms, offering a wide variety of choices for the headstone. From the simple look to the more fantastic look that can be created, it has gained in popularity through the years.

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