Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, May 29, 2010

The Legend That Is Bill Gates

By Paul Reed

Bill Gates isn't exactly the most popular man in America. In fact, a lot of people hate him. Are you a Bill Gates hater?

That's a shame. Bill Gates does not deserve to be hated. He's incredibly generous and giving. He has a foundation, The Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, spends 1.5 billion per year - all on charitable causes. That number is so big it is hard to even imagine.

He's so dedicated to charity, and to working to make the world a better place, he retired from Microsoft to have time to work at this full time. People still think he's an asshole for some reason. The type of people who think bad things about Bill Gates tend to be unsuccessful and negative and bitter.

Microsoft is far from perfect of course. But you know what? They aren't that bad compared to most of corporate America.

Bottom line is that you have to respect Microsoft and Bill Gates. Mr. Gates is a huge success and there's no arguing with how much good he's done with his money. He made all of that from nothing too which is very impressive.

Before we all get on our high horses, let's be real. You can't give to others if you have nothing yourself. If Bill Gates had been all humble and had kept Microsoft small, the world would have been the poorer for this.

Bill Gates is a smart guy, and knew that to achieve his aims he had to become a success. He became someone who could make a real difference. If you are sitting around complaining about Bill Gates and all of his riches, stop for a minute and think. He does a lot of good in the world. How much good are you doing on a regular basis?

Do you contribute to AIDS research? Work to reduce world hunger? Bill Gates does. He dedicates his life to making the lives of others better.

There's no point in resenting other people's successes. This just deprives you. You likely think that you are a good person, right? Well, if you believe that rich people got that way because they are greedy or evil, and believe that you are good, how does that fit together with you becoming wealthy some day? Answer: it doesn't.

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Friday, May 28, 2010

Power Your Mind To A Life Of Success

By Linden Cope

Over the years there have been several books published that revolving around how to power your mind. If you look deeper into each one you would find that they all have the same critical concept: What you believe, you can achieve. Just understanding this will help you to create the life of your dreams just by focusing on specific thoughts.

That's right. Thinking is a choice. The thoughts you choose to focus on are a choice. You get to decide.

Just think of it like you are an automobile. No matter what shape, size, or make your vehicle is it needs an engine to get from point A to point B. Without one you won't be able to get anywhere.

In order to keep it running smoother and more efficiently, you need to feed it high quality gasoline, high quality oil, make sure it is maintained accordingly. This means you actually "choose" what fuels your engine.

The same concept is present when you want to power your mind. If you feed it high quality information, positive thinking and more focused thoughts, you will see things begin to take shape. Your thoughts end up impacting how far you will travel and how fast you will get there.

If by chance you choose to bypass fueling your mind properly you won't get very far. When you choose to skip oil changes and revert back to standard gasoline for your vehicle, it will eventually cease to function all together. The same is true when your mind isn't fed positive and focused thoughts throughout the day.

Are you wondering where these thoughts come from that help you power your mind? The truth is they are all around you. Anything you hear and take in will have an impact on your thoughts. A great example of this is when you listen to a depressing newscast every day. Over time you may start to feel depressed or pessimistic in your views. This is because what you hear impacts what you think. It's your subconscious mind hard at work.

Just remember, you power your mind. If you don't want to get down about the weather, don't listen to the depressing weather reports. Think about what it feels like after a long cold winter and when that first day of spring comes around. Everyone is out and about, washing cars, getting their vitamin D from the sun, rolling down the windows while they drive, and just enjoying the weather. Wouldn't you love to have every day feel like the first sunny day of spring? All you have to do is hear and list to positive messages that will help you start thinking positively and focus on a better life.

The key differentiator then, is what are you listening to? What is your subconscious mind exposed to on a regular basis? Whatever it is, that is what will guide you in your day-to-day life. Even if you do not consciously think about it, your subconscious mind will make that your reality.

So are you ready to reach your goals and enjoy a life of happiness. The first place to start is to present positive thinking to your subconscious. Do you just want more peace? Then just think peaceful thoughts. Do you want to better your financial situation? Then just think about already having it. I could go on and on, but if you take the initiative to learn how to power your mind anything will be possible.

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The Power Of The Mind - The Amazing Truth

By Trevor Milne

Mind power has been attributed to the successes of so many people in this world. While some have believed it to help people amass wealth with lucrative businesses and careers, some simply believe it to bring happiness to life. The power of the mind influences all aspects of life, which makes it very powerful in influencing the outcome of your life.

Did you ever think about your own mind power? Did you know that your mind can control the outcome of your life? Did you ever consider it to be very influential in ensuring the success of your aspirations in life? If not, then you have to start a long and interesting learning experience in determining the connection of your mind to your ability to conquer your goals in life.

The good thing about developing the power of mind is that you don't have to sit around and wait on what you want to happen because it will come to you. Just by imagining that your life is everything you already dream you want it to be, all things that you desire can be yours. No, this is not magic, but merely the awesome power of positive thinking. Basically, what you think and imagine is what will come to pass in your life.

Consider the way you picture your life to be years from now. In your mind, you unconsciously develop a whole reality with everything that is in it revolves around everything you wanted. With mind power, you indulge yourself to these thoughts, setting it as a motivation to work your way to make that world happen. With this kind of visualization and positive affirmations, you increase the strength of your positive mind power.

Take some time out of each day to meditate for at least 30 minutes. During this time, feel free to use all of the techniques necessary in order to live the life you dream of.

Keep a journal and write down the things that you want in your life. If you want to lose weight, pretend you are already thin. By believing that it has already happened, the reality of it will not be far out of reach.

Practicing meditation opens doors to your subconscious minds. Along with self-hypnosis techniques, it helps unlock the power of your mind to empower yourself and make you able to work out your way towards achieving successes in life.

Using positive affirmations can be practiced throughout the day as well as when you are meditating. You have to be committed to what you want if you really want to see a positive change in your life. If you lack motivation, just pretend that you have already acquired the amount that you need to achieve your goals.

If you are having a difficult time with it, meditate on it. Use positive affirmations such as 'I am a very motivated person and I can do anything', 'I am focused and full of energy', and 'I am very ambitious and will be able to obtain everything that I desire'. Say these things aloud, to yourself, and say them when you are meditating.

Do these affirmations over and over until you believe in yourself that you are motivated, focused and well able to make your ambitious goals in life happen.

If you are currently suffering strings of bad luck, that could b a sign that you are full of negative energy. Bad luck is a manifestation of bad thoughts clouding your mind power to attract positive energies. Thankfully, mind power is powerful enough to help you rise above any circumstance that you are in.

To attract all good things in life, you have to attract positive energies. Positive thoughts attract positive energies and negative thoughts attract bad luck, simple as that. By practicing meditation and doing positive affirmations and visualizations you can turn your life around. However, to have the power to make positive changes, you have to first put your mind power into good use.

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Thursday, May 27, 2010

Great Tips For Caring For Your Headstone

By Tom Tree

A relative passing away is one of the saddest times of our lives but it helps to ensure that they have a beautiful headstone. There are several different materials available from which to make a wonderful headstone that will ensure that your beloved is remembered. Most people are guilty of leaving a headstone to get horribly dirty after their loved one is buried. Below are the best tips for caring for your headstone to let the memory of your loved one shine through.

The care that the headstone needs largely depends on the material that it is made from. The most common materials used for headstones nowadays are marble, granite and bronze. For marble and granite headstones, keeping them clean is a relatively easy task. The headstone can be gently cleaned with a solution made of 50% water and 50% bleach. Soak the headstone with the solution using a paper towel.

After putting the mixture onto the headstone you need to allow it to seep in. It should be left to do its work for around 30 minutes. After this time you can then rinse the water and bleach solution off with plain water. This process will have left the stone clean and sparkling.

If your loved one has a headstone made from bronze then this is slightly different. Because bronze is an alloy (made up of a mixture of other metals) it is best to know what percentage of what metals are contained within the headstone. This information should be available from the company who originally sold you the bronze headstone.

If you do feel it is necessary to clean the bronze headstone, then you can do so with a mild solution. Take 8 ounces of plain water and mix it with one tablespoon of ivory soap. Take a small nail brush and briskly rub the solution into the headstone. Rinse with plain water and repeat the process if necessary. Finally, rinse with distilled water and then polish it to make the headstone gleam again.

You can purchase ready-made kits that are designed to clean dirty headstones. These are generally inexpensive and can easily be found from online sources. By ensuring that your loved one's headstone is clean and visible, you can make sure that their memory is never forgotten.

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Live An Amazing Life By Manifesting Abundance

By Anthea David

No matter who you are or where you came from, you have the ability of manifesting abundance in your life. When you are deeply convinced of your needs, desires and those things you deserve, abundance will come to you. Whether you are consciously aware of it or not, most of whom and what you have in your life at this moment are reflections and expressions of those things.

Manifesting abundance is the knowing that thoughts have power. Your life has taken shape, beginning the moment you were born by the quality of your thoughts. When you were a baby, your quality of thought was only beginning to develop, since your thoughts focused on basic instincts and trying to absorb the vastness of the sensory input available to you.

You learned from that point on to believe in what your parents taught you. What your parents taught you ultimately ended up with telling you how to socialize, at least in childhood. And when you did that you went to school and learned that life is hard and ice cold. You were taught, in so many words, that manifesting abundance is nonsense.

You learned that perhaps you could reach your dreams with too much over work or you needed rare genes or maybe you would just get lucky. You found that abundance might not even be possible. You found that you might die of starvation and not have a comfortable home, if you were not lucky or you were ignorant. Perhaps, you even learned that you should forget all those extraordinary dreams that are essential to you, that perhaps you would have to marry just anyone rather than your soul mate.

In reality, you do not have to rely on luck, education or rare genes to have abundance. In reality, you do not have to be bored, work too hard at doing a job that does not suit you.

You deserve to thrive. You have permission to thrive. You can thrive.

But in order to manifest abundance, you have to be aware that you deserve it. You have to feel 'in your soul' that you deserve it. And, you have to know the certain way to do things that will make it come into being.

Now, each one of us is different. So just because the cosmic laws of manifesting abundance are universal, they will find unique expression in you and in your life, the way a musician applies universal laws of playing his instrument but has his own unique style of playing and composing. This is important to keep in mind so that you don't get confused. Manifesting abundance is not about keeping up with the Joneses.

When you manifest abundance in your life, you may or may not become famous, get married, or live in a mansion. In fact, you may just make enough money that will meet your needs to comfortably live within your means in a home that you love.

What really matters is what your heart desires. Manifesting abundance means manifesting what you want in your heart. It means living your fantasies.

How can you manifest abundance? What cosmic laws must you align yourself with no matter who you are?

* You deserve to live your fantasies. Take the time to find a quiet space or some internally private space each day for yourself, if this is hard for you to realize. You need to meditate on the concept of you being deserving of your desires. There are various ways to meditate, so learn how if you do not already know how. Since you have been conditioned for so long to think you are not good enough for a charmed life, you need to re-program yourself and recondition yourself to know the opposite.

* You need to know why you want those things you want and it needs to be deeply ingrained in your mind. If it is not, you will manifest things that you really do not want or need, remember you should not ask for anything you do not want since that is what will manifest in your life.

* Know what you want and then allow your fantasies to flow as you focus intensely on the fantasies that come to you.

* You will be inspired to take action to fulfill your fantasy, take all those opportunities. If you feel you need more knowledge, go online, read, order books, and watch videos that help you gain that knowledge. Follow your inspiration to go to certain places and websites and so on.

*It's not that your abundance will manifest without work; rather, it's that the work you do for it will be so inspired that it won't even seem like work to you, like a professional baseball player 'going to work' by playing his sport and getting paid millions of dollars for it.

*Allow things to manifest in your life as they will. Never try to force them. Know that the desired thing or event is 'in production' or 'being shipped to you' right now, and have the patience that comes with this certain knowing.

Begin moving towards your lifetime dreams; they are waiting for you now.

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Wednesday, May 26, 2010

How True Are Individual After-Death Experiences?

By Adolph Humor

It seems that reports of after-death experiences are becoming more and more common. In cases of after-death experiences, people endure serious injuries or medical problems that such that they are pronounced dead by doctors. However, some of these people regain consciousness, and when they do they sometimes describe having seen a variety of phenomena as they neared death.

To make things more interesting, the descriptions of these experiences often share many things in common. Such experiences happen when the person has no pulse or breathing pattern, which means that according to medical science, they can be considered dead.

People who have these experiences report seeing lights, followed by images of their loved ones and family members. They say that they feel as if they were traveling down a tunnel, and all have said that they were totally at peace during the whole experience and felt no fear at all.

Many people believe that because there are so many common elements between different reports of after-death experiences, there must be some truth to them. They say that since people seem to be experiencing the same thing, it must be based in truth.

The scientific community, however, is not convinced by the stories. While they don't doubt that these people did experience these things, they say that the visions can be explained naturally; the tunnel vision is caused by a lack of blood to the retinas, while the visions can be caused by the brain reacting to a high-stress situation.

Many victims of near-death experiences still claim, however, that they're sure they were having a supernatural experience.

We may never even learn the truth about near-death experiences, and if we do, it likely won't be anytime soon. We may have to wait until the moment we pass on ourselves before we understand what these experiences truly represent.

In the meantime, doctors and scientists will continue to study these experiences, as they present a very interesting example of a part of our world that has yet to be explained for sure.

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How A Headstone Consoles Someone's Grief

By Tom Tree

A headstone serves many purposes. You will find that to be true as you talk to different people. Here you will find how a headstone comforts grief. You might be surprised to see how useful a headstone is. There are many ways that a headstone can help a family with grief. Let's look at a few of those reasons.

One reason that it is so comforting is to know that people know who your loved one is. They know their name. They can celebrate with you the life they lead by knowing how old they were when they passed away. There are some people who can't afford a headstone and so family have to really search for the grave. It's very emotional. A headstone will help the family feel as though they were taken care of and thought of after they passed.

Others find comfort in knowing that a part of their legacy is on the stone. Many will show that they had a great mom and a great wife with these headstones. They remind them just how much they were needed in ones life. It can help you to recall all those good times which are hard because you will miss them, but they won't be forgotten.

Another way that it helps with grief is it allows the family to be reminded that they are better off. How many of us remember a loved one who might have been suffering? We hate to see them despair. Yet, if you create the headstone as many family members are left to do, they remember the good and honor the deceased in a way that they should be honored.

Last of all, it gives you a connection. Some of us are taught to talk to the person who is gone. When there is nothing there to talk to, many find that they bottle it all in. When you have a headstone, you have something to come to, to gather around. You have a place where you feel that if they were really there, they would meet you and that is a priceless feeling when you are learning to let go.

Here are just some of the ways that it can benefit a person. It's full of love and all the reminders that you aren't just burying a body. You are burying someone that you have loved. It makes it more personal, but is a constant reminder that while some are buried with nothing, there are people who do miss them and you are one of them.

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